Notice how this person only posts about how they themselves were affected instead of considering anyone elses feelings or any other reasons that lead to their ban? Proshippers, everyone.
If you actually cared about anything besides yourself youd know the last time we allowed proshippers into that fandom, that proshipper went on to groom the 2 most important writers of the comic, one of whom was only 12 years old at the time. But you wouldnt know about that situation, would you? Because all you do is talk without caring whos affected, without caring what exactly youre speaking on or the history of it. (And no, tumblr isnt a reliable news or history source.)
If you actually cared about anything besides yourself you'd know this isnt the first time you've made people severely uncomfortable. You threaten suicide at every opportunity, you make vague, threatening statuses when you dont get what you want, you defend predators, then try to control the way the victims speak right after that. When your ideas arent put into the comic and we try desperately to reassure you over and over that its okay you still talk about how sad you are and how mean everyone else is just because they wont let you control THEIR comic. Because instead of taking criticism seriously or genuinely wanting to improve, you just say "thats the way i am" and find a group to enable all the worst parts about yourself. This is a story almost every 'proshipper' experiences, because appearantly being too lazy to care about other people is "woke" now, and everyone needs a friendgroup to enable them instead of calling them out on their shit!
On top of that, you are an endo system. The last time we let endo systems into the server, an endo system groomed a minor and raped their own partners, using their disguise as a "system" to gain the trust of people who are actually mentally ill to take advantage of them. But no, you dont care about that, do you? You dont see how serious mental illness is, do you? You dont see how using it like a silly quirk to add on to your person can hurt people, do you?
You cannot just say "dont interact if you dont like it" when someone criticizes something harmful you do, especially if youre doing so in a public space, and im not even talking about proshipping with this one. How many times have I let you know that something you did hurt me, only for you to say "if you dont like me then just dont interact with me" in MY OWN SERVER BTW? You do not exist in a vacuum and the shit you do affects people. Check your fucking privledge, because its a blessing you get to complain about being banned from a tiny discord server instead of having to complain about the shit we sexual abuse victims deal with DAILY.
Theres so many things happening in the real world right now, but you only care about online shipping discourse. How "progressive" of you. Lets talk about how fictional pedophillia is progressive even though everyone in charge within the United States IS a pedophile and they get off on the content proshippers put out! Lets talk about how fiction doesnt affect reality even though 2 teenagers, who were both proshippers, just got arrested for trying to murder their classmate to 'bring a real life school shooter back from the dead'!!
I have tried so very hard to be kind to you, we all have. Throughout all your outbursts and all the boundaries you have crossed, we still tried. And I'm not perfect, I know that, nobody is, but we all have given you grace so many times, given you the benefit of the doubt so many times. Its never enough for you. You only get worse instead of taking positive change for once. We were all there for you but that never mattered to you. You dont care who gets hurt, as long as everything goes your way. Which, honestly, sounds more conservative than progressive, doesnt it?
So, sorry we dont want anything to do with you. Its totally JUST because youre a proshipper and not because the last 2 years youve been in the fandom have been hell! /SAR. Keep thinking about yourself, I guess. See where it gets you, and know you have nobody to blame but yourself. We tried.
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