Love The Unloved, Please.

Imagine your villainous F/O grabbing your hair tight and using their grip to position you perfectly for a deep, rough kiss.

the funny thing about plurality is that if you say youre plural and believe your plural then you are plural

am always obsessed when someone says to a character “call off your dog” about another character.

please please please please reblog if you’re a writer and have at some point felt like your writing is getting worse. I need to know if I’m the only one who’s struggling with these thoughts

this is a common phenomenon. the better you get, the more you recognize flaws. the good thing is you can strive to get better. but the bad thing is that you see nothing but flaws. you are actually getting better, but your editing/critical brain is getting tuned up and can see more things to improve. someone post the graph, I can't find it

If you can't think of a safeword, you can always use the street light system. Red for stop, yellow for slow down and green for go. If you're mouth is covered and you need to stop, you can use the knocking system. One knock for stop, two knocks for go. There are tons of ways to stop play without breaking the flow.

This post started because I was listening to audio porn, and the creator made a passive aggressive comment about how safewords shouldn't exist, that CNC shouldn't exist, and people should just say stop because 'safewords and CNC reinforce rape culture,' and I had to stop listening. It turned me off and annoyed me so much. I don't care how good your voice is, that voice is saying puritanical shit.

If you can't think of a safeword, you can always use the street light system. Red for stop, yellow for slow down and green for go. If you're mouth is covered and you need to stop, you can use the knocking system. One knock for stop, two knocks for go. There are tons of ways to stop play without breaking the flow.

My safeword is chai ♡

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

this is the restrained version of me. i could be much worse.

what i’ve learned in my life is if someone is treating you poorly and youre asking yourself “what magic words can I use to make this person treat me with basic respect,” those words don’t exist and they never will.