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you can and will become the opposite of your parents. i believe in you

the other day i was discussing films with a fairly new friend and he remarked that even when i dislike something, i take the time to understand and explain why. this is something i spent years trying to deliberately cultivate, specifically because i inherited an insufferable sense of assertive superiority from my dad. i hated it in him and i eventually realised that i hated it in myself as well. my friend didn't know any of this when he commented on it. the more i think about it, the more i realise how much it meant to me that i could be described like that. i won.

settings > wound > my wound > reopen

People who have a pervasive shit attitude toward everything are extremely exhausting to be around. No, this doesn't make you a bad person for having trauma or depression. You're allowed to go through hard times and lean on others for support. But there is a point where being negative and spiteful about things all the time is not only self-defeating but harmful to your relationships. There is a meaningful difference between talking about your struggles vs. almost pointedly refusing to engage with opportunities for positive experiences/emotions. The latter becomes contagious and fatiguing for people around you, because you're essentially expecting them to dig themselves into a hole, too. It can even start to feel like you're punishing others for enjoying things if you're not happy. And it's wrong.

The bottom line is that it does actually matter how you frame things, sometimes. A lot of the time. Are you committed to being miserable because you take some form of satisfaction in it, and is that maybe preventing you from being healthier and happier?

the sexual tension between two gas stations on the same intersection

I’m so sick of this shit. Two gastations can’t even be on the same block without some walnut shipping them, while I can’t find a single fic for dennys/applebees with dennys bottoming.

you’re literally out of your mind if you think Dennys isnt a top

I think we should figure out what age we’re living in now so we can say how it’s collapsing to each other

Our age of plastics is collapsing