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You cannot rules-lawyer your way safe from bad faith
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Transphobia is directly rooted in and linked to misogyny no matter if it's agaisnt trans women, trans men, or enby folks btw. Like if you look into it even for a second this is so obvious.
“Omg transandrobros criticizing Whipping Girl are so weird. How is this what they’re getting so worked up about? It’s like maybe they just want to be mad at trans women. There’s a word for that you know!”
You cannot be saying this when “read Whipping Girl” has been used as a flat-and-outright, on its own, dismissal of people speaking on transmasculine issues for at least six fucking years now. You cannot continually throw a text at a community, and one which the author has self-reflected as being weak in its assessment of nonbinary and transmasculine issues, as a way to shut them up and not expect them to point out why that’s flawed and call them transmisogynists.
This reads an awful lot like victim blaming to me, “Shut up because this thing says you should. No, don’t talk about that thing’s flaws and why those flaws should maybe make us re-think how we’re treating you because we’ve outright stated that we’re treating you like this because of how your experiences are dictated to us by an author who has criticized her own work for doing such. You’re a transmisogynist if you don’t like how this one trans woman who said she would change some of how she would talk about trans men in her work if she could do it over is describing you in that work she criticized herself. You’re only doing any of this because you hate trans women in the first place, and not because trans women are being wielded as a cudgel by a whole bunch of people, not only trans women, to silence you.”
And it frames the “stop throwing this text at us to tell us to stop talking about the oppression we face. It does a poor job of representing more than the absolute most privileged of transmasculine experience while universalizing that as the idea of how all of us experience the world,” as being just as harmful as, “shut up about the oppression you face.”
This isn’t even a “well we were hit so we can hit back, that’s not worse than the hitting that you were doing” because we aren’t tearing down the entirety of Whipping Girl and saying transmisogyny doesn’t exist, just pulling apart the parts where the text misrepresents experiences which are not the author’s. This is a “we were hit and all we’re doing is saying maybe people shouldn’t be hitting us, and you’re trying to say that what we’re doing is the worse of these two things.”
AMERICANS!!! DO NOT DO THIS TO FLOCK 'SECURITY' CAMERAS. REPOST AND SPREAD THE WORD
do not get IR blocking fabric or thick wool to cover your nose and mouth
do not get IR blocking sunglasses since facial recognition has moved up to targeting and identifying the upper face
do not avoid having your phone or any bluetooth devices around these cameras as they can detect and track those signals
do not buy cheap green lasers 1 milliwatt or above from etsy or walmart or amazon (i will not try and find a link if you ask)
do not use them to fry those fuckers from a distance damage the delicate inner sensors by pointing the beam in the lenses
AND unless you want to cost Flock more money in repairs, do not buy a small circle saw or a reciprocating saw and cut down the pole
OR do not climb said poles, spray paint on the solar panels, cover the lens with paint or a sticker, then use bolt cutters to sever the wires
when doing all these things, DO NOT avoid using latex gloves as fingerprints can leak through
DO NOT USE DEFLOCK TO FIND FLOCK SURVEILLANCE CAMERAS NEAR YOU
remember, flock is for YOUR safety :) even though crime rates have not gone down since they were implemented, they're being abused to track down exes and s/os, and many face pools or houses or schools or gymnasiums! Where there are no liscence plates to be found!
DO NOT DO THESE THINGS and enjoy a life under surveillance!
enjoy living in the country where 87,000 of these cameras were used to track down a woman who got an abortion!
enjoy living in the country where there's no consequences for a flock exec to watch a inside of a gymnastics place without their knowledge!
Remember, this is their American Dream.
EDIT: 53 cities have cancelled contracts with flock and are now turning to Axon, in which 🎺 invested 1-5 million dollars earlier this year.
"Underlying conditions." That's what killed them. Not the virus, not the measles, not the tainted lettuce. Underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. go to work. go out to eat. don't be afraid.
They weren't killed by the slashing of the CDC. They weren't killed by the administration's demonization of masks, that brought on by the vanity of one man who didn't want his bronzer to come off. They weren't killed by an industrial food system which will only do things Right if it's forced to, if it's inspected and made to, and over which there are far fewer watchdogs than there used to be. No! Don't worry. They were killed by underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. the engines must keep running. don't be afraid.
Don't think about the fact that 12% of the population, or just about the same percentage of the population that marked themselves as Black on the 2020 Census, has diabetes. Don't think about the fact that 10% of the US population, or approximately the same percentage which has blue eyes, has at least one autoimmune disease. Don't think about the fact that 6% of the adult US population, or approximately the same percentage as 'people under the age of five', has a chronic heart condition. Don't think about the fact that the CDC says that 40% of the US population is obese, and that is an "underlying condition," too. That percentage? It's about the same as every US resident between the ages of 25 and 54.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid.
"Underlying conditions" is a way to wave away responsibility, yes, but it's more than that. It's a way to put separation between the average citizen and the two people -- so far -- who have died from food infested with parasites, the two people who literally shit themselves to death because the Trump administration has fully abandoned all of its proper functions in order to strip down everything it can get its hands on and cart it away for itself. It is not enough to grift billions through American Liberty World Financial Bitcoin, Gold Shoe, And Bible-Printing Emporium. It is not enough to set up a literal "please bribe the President" ATM for foreign governments to shovel cash in via cryptocurrency. They have to grab everything they can that isn't nailed down, and to do that, they have to rip everything they can out of the walls, fire everybody they can get away with, and shuffle the money into ICE, and from their into the pockets of friends no-bid contracts.
It is not enough, and so they whisper "underlying conditions," because that tells so many Americans, "Hey. Don't be afraid. It's okay. You don't have 'underlying conditions,' right? You are good and virtuous. You have done Everything Right, and are thus blessed with Good Health. You have Worked Hard and Been Proper and thus you will not be touched by the seemingly-random hand of fucking death hiding in a bag of Kroger lettuce." It's the same voice that says, "You don't want those layabouts getting disability and cheating you out of your money, so we should make it harder," except now it's saying, "Actually, just like COVID, the only people who died were the people who were sick already, and obviously you only have underlying conditions if you weren't taking care of yourself, which you are, so don't worry! We don't actually have to do anything. This will sort itself out."
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. after all, it's not you. it's them.
You can apply this same logic to nearly every part of current policy, btw.
Well, it's not our fault that they came here illegally. It's not like we can reduce the actions we take to destabilize their governments, re-fund the lifesaving programs that prevented worldwide plague and famine and drought or be better global citizens. You're okay because you're a U.S. citizen, though.
Please ignore the bodies of Renee Nichole Good and Alex Pretti.
Well, it's not our fault that Black people get killed so much by police. If they want to live through a random traffic stop, a walk home, sleeping in their own bed or buying diapers at the store, they should just roll over and do what the cops say!
Please ignore the bodies of everyone who did and died anyway. And the fact that cops are not and are never supposed to be judge, jury and executioner.
Well, it's not our fault that inflation is spiraling out of control. If people wanted to be able to afford gas, food, tuition, rent, clothing and other basic necessities, they should have thought about that before they became poor!
Please ignore the pointless fucking war we started, all of the assistance programs we've cut, the tariffs we keep trying to illegally impose and all of the tax credits we hand out to those who are already at the top of the heap.
Nothing is ever their fault. It's always someone else's problem, it's always someone else's doing. The elections are rigged if they don't go their way, but honest when they do. It's always Obama's fault. Or Biden's. Or Hillary's. It's the Democrats. It's the European Union. It's the rest of the world.
It would be hilarious if it wasn't so awful. We're somehow the greatest and most powerful nation on earth... until it's time to make sure that the fucking lettuce won't kill us.
Then they're powerless. And it's not their fault.

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"Underlying conditions." That's what killed them. Not the virus, not the measles, not the tainted lettuce. Underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. go to work. go out to eat. don't be afraid.
They weren't killed by the slashing of the CDC. They weren't killed by the administration's demonization of masks, that brought on by the vanity of one man who didn't want his bronzer to come off. They weren't killed by an industrial food system which will only do things Right if it's forced to, if it's inspected and made to, and over which there are far fewer watchdogs than there used to be. No! Don't worry. They were killed by underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. the engines must keep running. don't be afraid.
Don't think about the fact that 12% of the population, or just about the same percentage of the population that marked themselves as Black on the 2020 Census, has diabetes. Don't think about the fact that 10% of the US population, or approximately the same percentage which has blue eyes, has at least one autoimmune disease. Don't think about the fact that 6% of the adult US population, or approximately the same percentage as 'people under the age of five', has a chronic heart condition. Don't think about the fact that the CDC says that 40% of the US population is obese, and that is an "underlying condition," too. That percentage? It's about the same as every US resident between the ages of 25 and 54.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid.
"Underlying conditions" is a way to wave away responsibility, yes, but it's more than that. It's a way to put separation between the average citizen and the two people -- so far -- who have died from food infested with parasites, the two people who literally shit themselves to death because the Trump administration has fully abandoned all of its proper functions in order to strip down everything it can get its hands on and cart it away for itself. It is not enough to grift billions through American Liberty World Financial Bitcoin, Gold Shoe, And Bible-Printing Emporium. It is not enough to set up a literal "please bribe the President" ATM for foreign governments to shovel cash in via cryptocurrency. They have to grab everything they can that isn't nailed down, and to do that, they have to rip everything they can out of the walls, fire everybody they can get away with, and shuffle the money into ICE, and from their into the pockets of friends no-bid contracts.
It is not enough, and so they whisper "underlying conditions," because that tells so many Americans, "Hey. Don't be afraid. It's okay. You don't have 'underlying conditions,' right? You are good and virtuous. You have done Everything Right, and are thus blessed with Good Health. You have Worked Hard and Been Proper and thus you will not be touched by the seemingly-random hand of fucking death hiding in a bag of Kroger lettuce." It's the same voice that says, "You don't want those layabouts getting disability and cheating you out of your money, so we should make it harder," except now it's saying, "Actually, just like COVID, the only people who died were the people who were sick already, and obviously you only have underlying conditions if you weren't taking care of yourself, which you are, so don't worry! We don't actually have to do anything. This will sort itself out."
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. after all, it's not you. it's them.
"Underlying conditions." That's what killed them. Not the virus, not the measles, not the tainted lettuce. Underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. go to work. go out to eat. don't be afraid.
They weren't killed by the slashing of the CDC. They weren't killed by the administration's demonization of masks, that brought on by the vanity of one man who didn't want his bronzer to come off. They weren't killed by an industrial food system which will only do things Right if it's forced to, if it's inspected and made to, and over which there are far fewer watchdogs than there used to be. No! Don't worry. They were killed by underlying conditions.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. the engines must keep running. don't be afraid.
Don't think about the fact that 12% of the population, or just about the same percentage of the population that marked themselves as Black on the 2020 Census, has diabetes. Don't think about the fact that 10% of the US population, or approximately the same percentage which has blue eyes, has at least one autoimmune disease. Don't think about the fact that 6% of the adult US population, or approximately the same percentage as 'people under the age of five', has a chronic heart condition. Don't think about the fact that the CDC says that 40% of the US population is obese, and that is an "underlying condition," too. That percentage? It's about the same as every US resident between the ages of 25 and 54.
don't be afraid. don't be afraid.
"Underlying conditions" is a way to wave away responsibility, yes, but it's more than that. It's a way to put separation between the average citizen and the two people -- so far -- who have died from food infested with parasites, the two people who literally shit themselves to death because the Trump administration has fully abandoned all of its proper functions in order to strip down everything it can get its hands on and cart it away for itself. It is not enough to grift billions through American Liberty World Financial Bitcoin, Gold Shoe, And Bible-Printing Emporium. It is not enough to set up a literal "please bribe the President" ATM for foreign governments to shovel cash in via cryptocurrency. They have to grab everything they can that isn't nailed down, and to do that, they have to rip everything they can out of the walls, fire everybody they can get away with, and shuffle the money into ICE, and from their into the pockets of friends no-bid contracts.
It is not enough, and so they whisper "underlying conditions," because that tells so many Americans, "Hey. Don't be afraid. It's okay. You don't have 'underlying conditions,' right? You are good and virtuous. You have done Everything Right, and are thus blessed with Good Health. You have Worked Hard and Been Proper and thus you will not be touched by the seemingly-random hand of fucking death hiding in a bag of Kroger lettuce." It's the same voice that says, "You don't want those layabouts getting disability and cheating you out of your money, so we should make it harder," except now it's saying, "Actually, just like COVID, the only people who died were the people who were sick already, and obviously you only have underlying conditions if you weren't taking care of yourself, which you are, so don't worry! We don't actually have to do anything. This will sort itself out."
don't be afraid. don't be afraid. after all, it's not you. it's them.
I have an underlying condition. Alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency. It's a genetic condition. I didn't find out I have it until my 30s, when the damage started to show. So when someone tells me they don't have to worry, because they don't have any underlying conditions, my response is "Don't be so sure."
Queerness isn't inherently political, actually, it's politicized. I think that distinction carries weight because we often paint ourselves as a sign of a progressive society. But we predate progression and regression. We have always existed. The presence of queerness is primeval, part of the natural state of a species, even removed from our current position standing on the shoulders of giants. We just *are.* Which makes any action against queerness, any cultural upheaval against our expression, that more clearly absurd.
Twenty five years of full time ministry, and I wonder what that would’ve looked like if I never had to unlearn the very first things I learned about God.
Turns out that are whole branches of Christianity were kids aren’t taught the things I was. There are Christians who never had to reconcile a good and loving God that sends people to hell. There are Christians whose faith didn’t start with BEING TAUGHT TO HATE THEMSELVES! I had no clue what to do with that. What I did know was a faith that scared me so deeply that I laid awake at night wondering if I had prayed enough to cover all my sins from that day. If I died while I slept, there was a good chance I was going to hell. What I did know was a faith where if my parents didn’t home at the time they said they would, I started to worry that the rapture had happened and I got left behind. What I did know was a faith where my body was deeply sinful and the natural biological things it was doing was actually Satan tempting me and that those things were a different category of sin that came with special consequences. I have spent so much of my life untangling harmful theology that I never stopped to think there are people who never got tangled up in it. My whole adult life has basically been recovering from one version of Christianity, or helping others recover from it. That’s just the water I swim in. I forgot other water exists.
Looking beyond the faith I inherited.
a lot of transandrophobia boils down to plano original recipe bioessentialist sexism combined with the fact that people see men as acceptable targets of violence and harassment.
like idk how much more I can simplify it down than "you think I'm less of a human being and you think it's fine to openly treat me that way"

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I think we should figure out what age we’re living in now so we can say how it’s collapsing to each other
Our age of plastics is collapsing
potentially controversial but i don't think "male sexuality is inherently predatory (and so if you don't want to be predatory, you're probably a girl) is a winning feminist take. i actually think it's exactly the opposite and we should really be avoiding the implication that predatory misogynistic behavior is biological and not social in nature
Frankly I think a lot of Tumblr users think there is no overlap between trans women and gay men like there is between trans men and lesbians 1. because RuPaul did a great job intentionally convincing at least two generations of baby queers that gay men and trans women don't share culture because he's a transmisogynist piece of shit who intentionally kept trans women off Drag Race for years - shattering the perception of our community overlap in the eyes of the mainstream, 1.5. and that culture he cultivated in the mainstream made you afraid of drag as an art so you're uncurious about it, and 2. you're afraid of learning about balls because they're not sanitized white queer culture.
Once upon a time a huge proportion of trans women came out from the gay community. My trans mentor was one such person. It was a core part of our history, one of the only communities where we could experiment without (much) fear. Trans women who still ID as gay (for men) fucking exist, just like trans men who still ID as lesbians. It’s pretty normal to want to keep IDing with the community which gave you your life and stay part of it. Transitioning shouldn’t mean giving up that community, and the expectation that we should is transphobia.
The dominant culture is misery.
That's it.
They'll dress it up in all kinds of language about strength and virtue and honor and (gag) purity. But it's really just misery.
To be a Man is to contort yourself into the smallest, most rigid box possible. The sides are lined with impossibly sharp razors, so you can never even approach the boundaries of your containment without pain. Remember that negative reactions to pain are forbidden under masculinity.
To be White is to hold yourself separate and above. To avoid contamination. Any and all fellow feeling is suspicious and to be distrusted - loyalty is to Whiteness alone. No value can be found outside of Whiteness, thus the only way to hold value is to be White, the purer the better.
These categories (and others) exist within a strict hierarchy while containing equally strict hierarchies within themselves. While (White) Men will gather in exclusive groups, refusing entry to all others, there is no camaraderie. No trust. How can there be when there is no truth? Honesty is precluded by the restrictions of the dominant class.
Everyone is always scrambling to achieve the next rung of the ladder. The Man next to you is not your brother: he's your competition. Every White person who passes you makes you that much less; each that you pass inflates your status.
The reward is a fractional reduction in misery. In theory. And perhaps in reality. Can we measure the wounds we give ourselves, even as we tell ourselves they are improvements?
That's the only reward this system can offer because it's the only product the system can manufacture. There is no peace or joy in reaching Peak Manhood or Peak Whiteness. There is only the pyrrhic victory of having nobody above you to cause you more misery than you cause yourself. Of having everyone below you to defend against while attaining no freedom from the strictures of being a Man or White, lest you fall.
None of this is the natural condition of being male or having less melanated skin. These systems are completely artificial, invented by people who need to exert control. Whatever they promise, all they are capable of delivering is varying levels of misery.
Change is scary (and fear is something else Men are not permitted to feel) and people cling to unhealthy situations and relationships and beliefs for many, many reasons. But I promise you that life is better outside of the Kyriarchy Misery Machine.
The more people who open their eyes to how terrible it is to force your entire being into conformity to attain the dubious reward of visiting greater misery on your fellow humans, the less power these systems have over all of us. The weaker the systems become, the more people wake up to just how harmful and worthless these systems are.
It's the same cycle as always. Which is why those deeply invested in these systems work so hard to divide the rest of us.
But it's all misery. All the way up.
obviously I dont think the posts that outright mock or bully ariana grande's body are right, thats awful. but when I see her fans respond to posts of genuine concern for her health like "she told you guys to stop commenting on her body! you arent her doctor, you dont know whats going on, she could be perfectly fine!" I don't think they know that at that level of anorexia she can have a heart attack and die literally any day now. being that skinny is deadly and im afraid Ariana might be the next celebrity to remind the wider cultural context of that. celebrities have died from anorexia in better shape and with more body fat than she has now
something about anorexia is that it is basically an addiction. the addiction is to the sensation of "progress" about losing weight. and just like any addict, if you try to take away their drug of choice before they've truly accepted that they need help, theyre going to fight you about it. theyre going to say that you're trying to control their life, theyre going to paint you as critical and mean and theyre the victim who's just trying to live life their own way. thats exaclty what ariana has done with her new music video. her "critics" are stereotyped as a panel of ugly older men with exaggerated prosthetics: bulbous noses, wrinkly chins, neanderthal brows, all saying that she's inauthentic and that they liked the old version of her, or just outright insulting her. then she slaughters them all with a chainsaw. im serious.
it seems pretty obvious that right now she is in the very depths of a disease. she is as tiny and frail as she is and everyone who "criticizes her body" are ugly and mean and misogynistic. anyone telling her that she is sick, she needs help, shes going to die are trying to take away her drug, and her drug is the anorexia. and i just really hope she has someone close to her that can get through to her before she loses her last chance to choose her life over her addiction.

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Republicans NEVER deliver. It's one massive betrayal after another. The humiliation for MAGA is staggering. That's why they crave an alternate reality built on racism and sexism.
#DOGE
It's a divide and conquer strategy. It's "pay no attention to the billionaire picking your pocket; instead compete for scarce resources against your girlfriend and your neighbor who emigrated from Ecuador" and the resources aren't even scarce, they're being Hoovered up by trust fund babies who are already richer than Croesus but for some ungodly reason still think you owe them more.
Throw off the shackles of petty, small-minded prejudices and get some working class solidarity now.
Was reading an essay yesterday and the author was ripping on Trump's supposed healthcare "plan." And I'm right there with him - Trump doesn't even have 11% of a plan. But then dude goes on about how Trump has no idea how paying for healthcare works - which I'm sure is true - but then says "how do you even buy healthcare without health insurance?" and I went "oooooohhhhhh."
You go in and hope you can afford it with whatever is in your bank account. Which means you only go in when you absolutely can't avoid it. Which means you don't go in for preventative care. Which means issues don't get caught and handled at minor stages. Which means your healthcare is much more expensive than it otherwise would be.
It means you wear the same glasses for over a decade because a new exam plus new glasses is too expensive. It means your teeth might be chipped or discolored, crooked, have visible gaps, because you can't swing the cost of 6-month cleanings and also can't afford to fix non-emergency issues.
It means treatable cancers become metastasized death sentences before they are discovered.
Like, my dude. I appreciate that we mostly agree politically. But if you don't have a clue what life without health insurance is like in this country, maybe do some reading.
Related:
Kansas Citians who buy health insurance through hearthcare.gov can expect to pay much more for monthly premiums next year. According to prel