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That is the actual goal of gender affirming care. It’s a treatment we undergo so we can just stop thinking about it.
Like clockwork, my least favorite type of rhetoric is back. That hateful bigot we all love to jeer has augmented their appearance — Elon’s hair plugs, DeSantis’ lifts, Laura Loomer’s whole face — and now, so artfully, a well-meaning liberal or left-leaning news editorial has happened upon the perfect gotcha: calling it gender affirming care. Recently, this type of framing targeted Karoline Leavitt. The publication’s public Instagram post about the Press Secretary’s lip filler described her choice explicitly as gender affirming care. Except, it’s not. Gender affirming care actually means something, and telling me the procedures I fought for in my transition are the same as a cis woman getting lip filler, is frankly, insulting.
Gender affirming care actually means something, and telling me the procedures I fought for in my transition are the same as a cis woman gett
This argument glaringly misses the point of gender affirming care by attributing the same motivations to hormones and top/bottom surgery (among others) that they do to things like lip filler, nose jobs, hair plugs, and BBLs. If you consider yourself an ally, or better yet an advocate for trans people, then you have to recognize that for those who wish to receive gender affirming care, it is a necessity, not a desire or an added seasoning on top of social transition. Gender dysphoria is a deeply psychologically damaging experience that affects how one is able to move through the world. It is a fragmentation of one’s sense of self. It is not wanting to be prettier. The industry that offers elective cosmetic procedures feeds off of harsh beauty standards. It invents a need to be more attractive, more desirable. It chases a perfect and impossible ideal. Asking people why they got gender affirming care produces pretty much the same answer across the board. We did it because we had to. I’d rather be an ugly man than any woman at all. Cis people often fail to realize that the feeling of dysphoria around sex characteristics is not about “not liking the way you look” or about imagining an idealized version of oneself like those drawings where a man is looking in the mirror and seeing a curvy bombshell. God knows you don’t get to choose what hormones do to you; ask any trans man who has turned into his father. It’s about a visceral need to make changes to your body in a direction that doesn’t feel foreign. It is an alleviation of the feeling of wanting to rip your skin off, break your own bones, tear yourself away from any physical body at all. ... And allow me to address the inevitable response: “They are saying this to make conservatives mad! To point out that they are benefitting from the very thing they are trying to ban!” and let me stop you right there. They don’t care. If pointing out conservative hypocrisy worked, it would have worked, and it never has. Doing so has been the primary strategy of the Democratic Party for the last decade, and the opposition barely tries to justify it anymore. Conservatives flex their political dominance by legally enshrining a care-for-me-and-not-for-thee policy. They are not deterred when their hypocrisy is brought to light; they get off on it.
Now picture the 42-year-old staff sergeant whose bloodwork comes back a little low on testosterone next spring. Nobody’s asking him for evaluation letters from therapists. There’s no legislature holding hearings about his prescription, no lawsuit trying to stop his refills. Under Hegseth’s program, he won’t even have to ask. The Pentagon is coming to him. So when a member of Congress looks at that program and declares it the same thing I went through the wringer for, I understand the point she thinks she’s making. But here’s the message a casual reader actually takes away: transition care belongs in the same drawer as testosterone boosters, Botox, and Elon Musk’s hair plugs. And once it’s in that drawer, it’s about as “medically necessary” as anything else in there. Which is to say: completely optional. That phrase, medically necessary, is doing far more work than it gets credit for. It’s the standard insurers use to decide what they’ll cover and what they’ll wave off as cosmetic, and “cosmetic” is already their favorite exit ramp when a trans patient’s claim hits the desk. It’s the finding those dozens of medical organizations put their names behind. It’s the thing my three letters existed to establish in the first place. The entire miserable apparatus I climbed through exists because this care has to keep proving, over and over, to skeptical people holding checkbooks, that it’s necessary. The joke hands that hard-won word away for free.
Calling Hegseth’s testosterone program "gender-affirming care" trivializes trans healthcare and misreads what we’re up against. Speaking onl
When the Washington Blade asked the Pentagon to explain why cis troops can now get hormone therapy while trans troops can’t, it didn’t get an answer. Put those two policies next to each other and stop hunting for the clash, because there isn’t one. In this worldview, testosterone belongs to men. Modern life has supposedly been draining it out of them, and the state’s job is to pump it back in. A 45-year-old “warfighter” topping off his levels is a correction, a restoration of the way things are supposed to be. A trans man injecting the identical molecule is, to these same people, an attack on the way things are supposed to be. Same drug. Same syringe. Opposite moral charge. And the charge flips on exactly one variable: whether the hormone is enforcing the gender binary or crossing it. Which is why you can’t embarrass Hegseth by telling him he’s running a gender-affirmation program for men. He’d agree with you. That’s the pitch. This is a man whose official account posts under the name “Secretary of War” and who captioned his own hormone video with a testosterone pun. He thinks he’s running a masculinity program because he is. ... So why do people keep trying to “gotcha” anti-trans politicians and public figures like this? Because hypocrisy is a comfortable diagnosis. A hypocrite shares your premises and misapplies them, which means the fix is cheap: point out the contradiction and wait for the shame to kick in. That frame keeps us in a world where everyone agrees on the rules and one side simply forgot to follow them. Describing the actual position costs more. This administration wants medical transition made as close to impossible as the courts will allow, for as many people as possible, at any age. Every policy it has produced points in the same direction. The ban. The care cutoff. The purge. And yes, the High-T video, which celebrates hormones in exactly one context: enforcing what a man is supposed to be. Say all of that out loud and there’s no joke left. Nothing to dunk with, nothing to quote-tweet, nothing fun. Just a government methodically working to legislate people like me out of public life. “Gotcha” is easier, but it doesn’t actually accomplish anything. That’s the whole appeal.
That is the actual goal of gender affirming care. It’s a treatment we undergo so we can just stop thinking about it.
Like clockwork, my least favorite type of rhetoric is back. That hateful bigot we all love to jeer has augmented their appearance — Elon’s hair plugs, DeSantis’ lifts, Laura Loomer’s whole face — and now, so artfully, a well-meaning liberal or left-leaning news editorial has happened upon the perfect gotcha: calling it gender affirming care. Recently, this type of framing targeted Karoline Leavitt. The publication’s public Instagram post about the Press Secretary’s lip filler described her choice explicitly as gender affirming care. Except, it’s not. Gender affirming care actually means something, and telling me the procedures I fought for in my transition are the same as a cis woman getting lip filler, is frankly, insulting.
Gender affirming care actually means something, and telling me the procedures I fought for in my transition are the same as a cis woman gett
This argument glaringly misses the point of gender affirming care by attributing the same motivations to hormones and top/bottom surgery (among others) that they do to things like lip filler, nose jobs, hair plugs, and BBLs. If you consider yourself an ally, or better yet an advocate for trans people, then you have to recognize that for those who wish to receive gender affirming care, it is a necessity, not a desire or an added seasoning on top of social transition. Gender dysphoria is a deeply psychologically damaging experience that affects how one is able to move through the world. It is a fragmentation of one’s sense of self. It is not wanting to be prettier. The industry that offers elective cosmetic procedures feeds off of harsh beauty standards. It invents a need to be more attractive, more desirable. It chases a perfect and impossible ideal. Asking people why they got gender affirming care produces pretty much the same answer across the board. We did it because we had to. I’d rather be an ugly man than any woman at all. Cis people often fail to realize that the feeling of dysphoria around sex characteristics is not about “not liking the way you look” or about imagining an idealized version of oneself like those drawings where a man is looking in the mirror and seeing a curvy bombshell. God knows you don’t get to choose what hormones do to you; ask any trans man who has turned into his father. It’s about a visceral need to make changes to your body in a direction that doesn’t feel foreign. It is an alleviation of the feeling of wanting to rip your skin off, break your own bones, tear yourself away from any physical body at all. ... And allow me to address the inevitable response: “They are saying this to make conservatives mad! To point out that they are benefitting from the very thing they are trying to ban!” and let me stop you right there. They don’t care. If pointing out conservative hypocrisy worked, it would have worked, and it never has. Doing so has been the primary strategy of the Democratic Party for the last decade, and the opposition barely tries to justify it anymore. Conservatives flex their political dominance by legally enshrining a care-for-me-and-not-for-thee policy. They are not deterred when their hypocrisy is brought to light; they get off on it.
i do find the rules around clothes fascinating because of how made up it all is. we invented the idea of covering our bodies from the elements because we lack fur like other mammals and then made up all these rules around it and now people will unironically tell you "men cant wear skirts its unnatural" girl none of this is natural. we are born naked and made up the rest as we went along. hope this helps.
“The police spend very little of their time dealing with violent criminals—indeed, police sociologists report that only about 10% of the average police officer’s time is devoted to criminal matters of any kind. Most of the remaining 90% is spent dealing with infractions of various administrative codes and regulations: all those rules about how and where one can eat, drink, smoke, sell, sit, walk, and drive. If two people punch each other, or even draw a knife on each other, police are unlikely to get involved. Drive down the street in a car without license plates, on the other hand, and the authorities will show up instantly, threatening all sorts of dire consequences if you don’t do exactly what they tell you. The police, then, are essentially just bureaucrats with weapons. Their main role in society is to bring the threat of physical force—even, death—into situations where it would never have been otherwise invoked, such as the enforcement of civic ordinances about the sale of untaxed cigarettes.”
— An excerpt from Ferguson & the Criminalization of American Life by David Graeber (via actjustly)
since i think many will have had the memory slip with just how many other atrocities have occured in the past 11 years, or are simply too young to remember, the last bit about the sale of untaxed cigarettes isn’t just some hypothetical, it’s a reference to the killing of eric garner
this is the origin of the slogan “i cant breathe”, which was revived in the wake of the killing of george floyd.
On this day, 17 July 2014, Eric Garner was murdered by police enforcing a civic ordinance.

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The saga began earlier this month, when Amnesty International (UK) released a report titled “A growing threat: the anti-rights movement in the UK.” It released a similar report last year, but this year, it added a new category for what appears to be the anti-rights movement’s most rapidly growing sector: “Gender critical” groups, or groups that are antithetical to transgender rights and inclusion. Rowling rushed to tweet about the situation. She lauded “LGB” groups—another anti-trans buzzword, which, as the name suggests, describes groups that wish to erase transgender people from the queer liberation movement—like the Gay Men’s Network, an organization that has pushed for anti-trans policies. That group posted a public letter indicating it might sue Amnesty International for defamation. The Network demanded a retraction of the report and then claimed that Amnesty is guilty of “trying to control gay and lesbian free speech.” In the day or so that followed, Rowling retweeted around a dozen similar letters. The posted letters include groups like Genspect, a Southern Poverty Law Center-designated hate group that threatened Amnesty International with legal action, as well as groups like LGB Alliance and Sex Matters.
“They have sued organizations into the ground.”
As I tell people all the time, when you are willing and able to take the rights of one group of people, you will start advocating for the taking of rights of others eventually.
I think going forward it will be important to define what is meant by a "free" country.
The US has gotten away with a LOT of shit by touting itself as a "free" nation without ever really defining what that means.
And a lot of nations are letting themselves off the hook for their collaboration with the ruse.
Because if the US was willing to do all the ugly shit they didn't want to be seen doing, they could reap the benefits while heaping scorn on the actors.
At the most obvious level, I don't believe a nation should be allowed to call itself "free" if it practices chattel slavery. So that was a giant, flaming issue from the very beginning.
England practiced chattel slavery, too. But people at home didn't think it was exactly the thing. So they banned it...while keeping the practice going strong in their colonies. Which allowed the people at home to ignore the bad shit going down in their name.
Sounds familiar....
Not once, in the entire history of this nation, has every citizen of the United States held all of the same rights and privileges as every other citizen.
That doesn't sound much like a free country.
That sounds like the same old shit hiding under a thick layer of "freedom" propaganda.
White supremacy has tilted every facet of this country since its founding. As has misogyny.
At its most basic level, the US is built on racism and sexism.
A truly free nation would not have multiple classes of marginalized people who are expected to constantly petition the government for their rights. That's our big freedom in the US - to beg our elected officials not to add more discrimination against us. And we have to work jobs to pay their salaries while we are expected to spend our "free" time pleading with legislators to give a shit.
I'm not the first or only person saying this by far, but the entire "freedom" line was and is bullshit and has been so since day one.
When the job of your lawmakers is to meet for a couple of months before going on vacation while the job of your citizens is to call, knock doors, petition, vote, write, call, email, protest, call, vote...something is seriously out of whack.
Lawmakers from both parties sharply criticized some of Mr. Trump’s moves, and federal judges have repeatedly declared the president’s actions illegal. Yet the White House has continued pressing ahead, and has taken steps to formalize some of its practices with its proposal targeting federal grants.
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What a surprise. A transphobe is completely ignorant about hormones. something something heart attack and die from not surprise...
Adrian Dobs, who researches endocrine gonadal function at Johns Hopkins University, tells WIRED that she was “quite surprised that this is what they’re thinking about,” and that “it's a very complicated issue to make the diagnosis of male hypogonadism,” the medical term for when the testicles aren’t producing enough testosterone. Dobs says that Hegseth seems to be radically oversimplifying the complicated issues around making a diagnosis of low testosterone—including the variability of testosterone levels depending on the type of assay (or analysis) performed and even the time of day the test is conducted. Because of circadian rhythms, she points out, the hormone is typically seen at “higher levels in the morning and lower throughout the day.” Another logistical problem, Dobs says, lies in individual circumstances. It’s one thing to test, for example, “a healthy person who sits at a desk” and quite another to test a person who is returning “from basic training or overseas and may have lost weight and was under a great deal of physical stress at the time,” as chronic stress can inhibit testosterone production. Hegseth’s view on testosterone itself is “misinformed,” according to Dobs. “Testosterone is a very important hormone,” she says, and it plays a key role in puberty and masculinization. “But it is not something that's going to make you smarter. It's not something that's going to make you live longer—we simply don't have any data to suggest that.” The longevity claim, she adds, would be incredibly difficult to prove in any case. The Pentagon declined to comment beyond Hegseth’s description of the screening and treatment process, so it’s unclear what specific results the Defense Department expects to achieve by administering testosterone to untold numbers of active-duty service members, or whether women in the Armed Forces will also undergo hormone assessments. Neither has the Defense Department made public what scientific research and which medical experts, if any, informed this decision.
The defense secretary’s idea of administering testosterone therapy to members of the US Armed Forces reveals little understanding of the com
Even if the hospital representative who negotiated the deal assumed their doctors were all Christian, that’s still a far cry from a contract that requires them to be conservative anti-LGBTQ Christians. (Leave it to a religious zealot to assume there’s only one kind of Christian.) Shepard also said the Statement of Faith was included in their discussions earlier this year, though the hospital denied that anyone was aware of that.
A Washington hospital terminated its contract with Idaho's 7B Care Clinic after learning providers had to endorse the ministry's bigoted bel
Ultimately, you had one group of people who wanted to help patients with no strings attached… and a Christian ministry made up entirely of strings. The result is that pregnant women in Sandpoint won’t be able to get the help they need in their community because of Republican politicians and Christian ministries that falsely believe they can provide enough care to patients on their own. None of this should be surprising to anyone. It’s the natural consequence of anti-abortion ideology replacing actual health care. Idaho Republicans drove OB-GYNs out of the state by threatening them with prison for doing their jobs, and a Christian “crisis pregnancy center” that stepped into the void cared more about policing doctors’ religions, marriages, and private lives than bringing qualified medical professionals into a community that desperately needs them. Instead of helping to repair the damage wrought by Republicans, 7B Care has only proven why clinics like theirs aren’t substitutes for legitimate medical facilities. Much like Catholic hospitals, their first obligation is to religious doctrine, not patients’ needs.
Liberals post this kind of thing and it really points how that they are just as disconnected from the realities of their party's priorities as conservatives are from the GOP's.
Elected Democrats who are in office right now, meaning we can see what they do when they get the votes, are not in favor of these things. But if the Dems were to cheat, we're supposed to believe suddenly they'd become more progressive?
Y'all really need to take off the rose-colored glasses and look at what's actually happening in front of your faces instead of what you wish were happening.

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Insane to me that disabled people will say: "Hey, your glorified idea of revolution is going to get us killed" and then be treated as collateral damage or a necessary sacrifice. Like, yeah, the systems in place now are oppressive and literally based on eugenics, but a Revolution™️is not going to save us. How are we supposed to trust you (abled people) to put good systems in place if you're ready to kill us to get rid of the old one. That's not saving people. Treating disabled people as if they're ridiculous for not wanting to die and pointing out how bad a revolution would be for us is insane. You're actually a horrible person if you do this.
I don't know, folks, I'm just so fucking tired of us disabled people either being ignored or told to shut up. We're treated as worthless and expendable. I'm not dying for your Great Revolution™️. I need my meds.
This is what I said! A revolution needs to save everyone or we save no one. Lives aren’t expendable.
It bothers me so much that the healthcare system relies so much on the patient's ability to advocate for themselves, organize their history, and be so persistent against every medical “professional” who says there’s nothing wrong/they can do. But so many struggle with fatigue, brain fog, and face such ingrained systemic barriers, that the people who need and deserve help and support can’t access it.
I saw something recently that resonated with me: “Access shouldn't depend on who has the energy to fight for it.” And I’ve never agreed with anything more.
I don't understand how cis people obsessed with gender norms think trans people are the weird ones. they're going around believing that your name has to correlate to your genitals. your fashion has to correlate to your genitals. your behaviours have to correlate to your genitals. your hobbies have to correlate to your genitals. who you date has to correlate to your genitals. whether you can put sparkles on your eyelids or not has to correlate to your genitals. and then people like me go "hmm. I might not do that. maybe I'll just do what feels fun and okay instead" and they LOSE their MINDS
The saga began earlier this month, when Amnesty International (UK) released a report titled “A growing threat: the anti-rights movement in the UK.” It released a similar report last year, but this year, it added a new category for what appears to be the anti-rights movement’s most rapidly growing sector: “Gender critical” groups, or groups that are antithetical to transgender rights and inclusion. Rowling rushed to tweet about the situation. She lauded “LGB” groups—another anti-trans buzzword, which, as the name suggests, describes groups that wish to erase transgender people from the queer liberation movement—like the Gay Men’s Network, an organization that has pushed for anti-trans policies. That group posted a public letter indicating it might sue Amnesty International for defamation. The Network demanded a retraction of the report and then claimed that Amnesty is guilty of “trying to control gay and lesbian free speech.” In the day or so that followed, Rowling retweeted around a dozen similar letters. The posted letters include groups like Genspect, a Southern Poverty Law Center-designated hate group that threatened Amnesty International with legal action, as well as groups like LGB Alliance and Sex Matters.
“They have sued organizations into the ground.”
taylor swift invited a guy who owns and operates an ice detention center to her wedding swifties can pack it up forever now your bitch is awful
Wild how no one made announcements like this about P.Diddy when his trial was happening.
Wild how abusive artists like Micheal Jackson can have biography movies made and not a single mention of accused abuses or the subsequent trials will be mentioned.
Hmmmm I wonder why people feel the need to explicitly condemn women and any action they may have possibly been a part of (like inviting a shitty guy to your wedding) yet do not extend this same behavior to men in the same industry who commit abuse and atrocities on a much larger scale 🤔?
yeah i hate concentration camps because i hate women you caught me

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I think we apply conspiratorial thinking to things way more than we should (though I think the basleine for conspiracies we should believe in is zero in general), from individuals to large scale ideas. Most people are not thinking about the specific ways to hurt someone or a group of people as much as possible, they simply don't care when that harm happens.
Most abusers are not doing math in their head to figure out the perfect way to manipulate their victims, they're just self-centered and cruel and they take advantage of opportunities that present themselves. Most abusers are not thinking "these are the steps I need to take to isolate my partner/child/friend/etc from everyone but me", they're just possessive and controlling in general.
In the same vein, most corporations are not thinking up ways to poison water sources or put lead into food or make cars more dangerous to drive; those things are just the consequences of cutting safety measures and labor rights to make a profit and corporations care more about the money they make than the harm being done, especially when the only consequences are a slap on the wrist. Marginalized groups are hurt the worst by this not because there is a targeted effort to wipe us all out but because we are simply not valued by society as a whole.
It's very easy to fall into this mindset because we don't want to think that our pain is often just a side effect of someone's actions, but the reality is that there isn't some grand conspiracy or a huge chunk of our society who are evil geniuses solely dedicated to hurting people. Most people are just. . . selfish and cruel and more focused on themselves than on how they're hurting other people. There is no shadowy group of people steepling their fingers as they plan their next waste plant to deliberately poison a town's lake. That just isn't what's happening.
all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.
And on the flip side, ban people from the hospital regardless of their relationship to you. We can have more control of our connections if we move beyond familial frameworks.