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the differences between alcohol, tobacco, and anything else in america is kind of absurd and it’s hard to wrap your head around without going kinda insane
you can drink alcoholic drinks in public if you want BUT ☝️ only in some places. you can smoke cigarettes almost fucking anywhere though, even though that makes the environment way worse for everyone around you. however you cannot smoke cannabis anywhere. you can’t even have it at all in a lot of places. having open containers (i.e. a bottle of liquor you’ve drank from before) of alcohol in your vehicle is illegal EVEN IF you’re sober as a nun. you can smoke in your car. everything has so much caffeine in it that sometimes a drink just hospitalizes or kills you. you can buy caffeine pills to stay awake at drugstores and gas stations. you need a drivers license to get decongestants and you have to jump through hoops and bark like a trained seal to get any kind of hrt or psychiatric medication. they sell cigs literally everywhere. they wreck your life and finances and make you smell horrid and give you cancer but a bunch of rich people are dumping so much money into keeping them legal that seemingly the only thing the government can do is “ehhh they give you cancer but we can’t BAN them.” cannabis has well-documented medical properties but old white people think smoking it makes you a satanist because of racist government propaganda. hell world
once you learn about the war on drugs you will never want to stop beating reagan to death with your bare hands
the differences between alcohol, tobacco, and anything else in america is kind of absurd and it’s hard to wrap your head around without going kinda insane
you can drink alcoholic drinks in public if you want BUT ☝️ only in some places. you can smoke cigarettes almost fucking anywhere though, even though that makes the environment way worse for everyone around you. however you cannot smoke cannabis anywhere. you can’t even have it at all in a lot of places. having open containers (i.e. a bottle of liquor you’ve drank from before) of alcohol in your vehicle is illegal EVEN IF you’re sober as a nun. you can smoke in your car. everything has so much caffeine in it that sometimes a drink just hospitalizes or kills you. you can buy caffeine pills to stay awake at drugstores and gas stations. you need a drivers license to get decongestants and you have to jump through hoops and bark like a trained seal to get any kind of hrt or psychiatric medication. they sell cigs literally everywhere. they wreck your life and finances and make you smell horrid and give you cancer but a bunch of rich people are dumping so much money into keeping them legal that seemingly the only thing the government can do is “ehhh they give you cancer but we can’t BAN them.” cannabis has well-documented medical properties but old white people think smoking it makes you a satanist because of racist government propaganda. hell world
Saw a post along the lines of “trans men are being groomed into the transmanosphere” and had to take a moment to laugh at how much the post read in the exact same way TERFs talk about “young autistic girls being groomed into mutilating themselves.
You just have to laugh at the irony.
you really could be DEPRESSED for MONTHS and the only thing people will notice about you is how easily you get irritated

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for real tho it feels exhausting that ive seen this whole "woman should be allowed to abstain from X beauty standard" -> "i perform X beauty standard, am i evil? do you think im evil? please forgive me i came up with a dozen excuses 🥺" since like 2015 (and i know its been going on longer than that) like girl thats not the poiiiiint
look me in the eyes. repeat after me. "i face societal pressure to perform this beauty standard. i should not face that pressure. i conform to this standard. i am rewarded for performing to this standard. i need to respect women who do not perform this standard. this is not about whether or not i am a sinner for wearing makeup."
Just so we’re clear, if I point out that you did something racist, that’s not the same as me thinking you’re irremediably terrible. You did a racist thing.
You think you don’t do racist things, homophobic things, etc? You do. I caught myself in fat phobic and homophobic lines of thinking/speech just this morning. I’m fucking gay married. Nothing disqualifies you from acting in a way that reflects the society you exist in. We are obliged to fight it. Why not fight it in honesty and with camaraderie?
“A lot of people were helpful but multiple places told me that they couldn’t give me that kind of information until I came in for an in-person consultation. No, they don’t do telehealth, no I can’t talk to the surgical coordinator first. We can’t give you any medical advice without seeing you first. I tried to explain I’m not asking for medical advice, I’m asking for objective information about your practice? I had someone tell me, ‘We’re not going to go around like this’ and shut me down like I was asking for something entirely unreasonable. “It felt like I was asking ‘Does your office have a wheelchair ramp?’ and the answer I kept getting back was ‘We can’t know if you need a wheelchair or not without having you come in first.’”
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The idea that everyone has the time and money (and all the other resources including time off work, childcare, transportation etc.) to make and attend an unlimited number of doctors appointments with every doctor in (and sometimes out of) town to see if there is a doctor willing to provide care for them is ridiculous, unrealistic and classist. (I’ve also had providers’ offices say “we decide these things on a case-by-case basis” and after they assured me that the patient would be considered for surgery, and after the patient made and attended the appointment - and they/their insurance paid for it - they were told by the provider that the provider had a BMI limit with no exceptions.) Healthcare providers/offices/facilities should be honest and transparent: “We have chosen not to provide healthcare to people with a certain height/weight ratio” is not medical advice. “Our equipment fails to accommodate people of a certain weight/size” is not medical advice. And whether it’s a wheelchair ramp or other disability accommodation, an inclusive surgery/procedure policy, or accommodating equipment, this information should be available for patients without requiring them to make, attend, and pay for an appointment just to find out that the healthcare provider/office/facility fails to accommodate them.
The moment a minority faith seeks the same access to public space that Christians have always enjoyed, the whole structure collapses.
That’s why this lawsuit matters. The Satanists’ presence forces government officials to confront the actual meaning of religious freedom, not the imaginary version crafted by Christian Nationalists. They’re exposing the obvious double standards: how the rules only “change” when Christians feel inconvenienced, how displays are only “obscene” when they’re not promoting Jesus, and how harm to “children” only counts when imaginary demons are involved—not when an actual Christian vandal destroys a lawful display in broad daylight.
State officials kept inventing rules to block The Satanic Temple from putting up a holiday display in the name of protecting children
Though Wade says she prefers not to focus on interpersonal conflict in the context of politics, when she realized others had allegedly experienced similar problems with Howard, she said she felt compelled to speak out about her experience. “What made me come forward is that, recently, I started hearing from others about how he's treating them the same way he did me,” Wade tells Them. “I realized this is a pattern of behavior and it’s hurting a lot of people and it needs to stop. If me coming forward can make all of those individuals who Heath has treated in a similar way realize that they are not alone, that it's not their fault, then I thought me coming forward would do more good.”
"He told me that because I’m an openly transgender woman, I stood no chance of winning higher office in New Hampshire,” New Hampshire state

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I don't think this is what they're intending to do, it's just a natural side effect of devaluing teachers, defunding education, taking big bets on AI, and hating children. And they're not banning social media for kids, that's just a pretense to get everyone else to have to use their ID to access the internet.
Every generation was brainwashed, and higher education doesn't produce more "leftists", if anything it produces more liberals because the dominant ideology of college is Liberal Capitalism. The purpose of a system is what it does, sure, but the ruling class isn't "intelligent" in the way that you and I are, they're just gamblers, acting on instinct, doing whatever punishes the people they don't like (poors, children) and pushing whatever makes them more money (AI).
Honestly social meda bans for children can be better predicted I think by 3 things 1: Parents have more voting power than do children. 2: Humans have a visceral response to protect young humans that is deeply selected for, to the point of 'to protect children' being a highly effective thought annihilating cliche that is hard to argue against. 3: the provable winnowing out of child from non-child gives a fig leaf to even more draconian data gathering (as can be readily seen because there are ways to prove ones age verifiably and anonymously but instead governments all over the world are choosing the 'give your fingerprints, retina, DNA and full government ID to hellokitty.com instead).
I don't think this is what they're intending to do, it's just a natural side effect of devaluing teachers, defunding education, taking big bets on AI, and hating children. And they're not banning social media for kids, that's just a pretense to get everyone else to have to use their ID to access the internet.
Every generation was brainwashed, and higher education doesn't produce more "leftists", if anything it produces more liberals because the dominant ideology of college is Liberal Capitalism. The purpose of a system is what it does, sure, but the ruling class isn't "intelligent" in the way that you and I are, they're just gamblers, acting on instinct, doing whatever punishes the people they don't like (poors, children) and pushing whatever makes them more money (AI).
I've worked every day of my life for at least the last two decades. And have gotten paid for almost none of it. Because that's what it means to be a mom.
Imagine what the economy would look like if we had to pay for housework.
Wild.
It just strikes me every once in a while how we all know this and accept it because it's just how things are.
Moms work for free. It's required.
Fucking feminism falling down on its most basic premise.
Not gonna count dishes and laundry, because everyone has those to deal with (though doing them for an entire family is not the same as just doing them for oneself, but still)
Start with diapers. How many diaper changes are in 2.5+ years of constant diaper wearing? Almost exclusively cloth diapers, mind, so that adds to the laundry we aren't counting. There was another year or so of sporadic diaper wearing while potty training was happening. Oh, and who was responsible for those teachings, do we think?
There's years of breast feeding. How would that even calculate? What's the going rate for producing entire, calorie-rich meals within your body nowadays?
Over a decade of wake-up calls and breakfasts during the school years. Plus the 3.5 years of being a full-time educator in there during the homeschool period.
Twenty plus years of being an on-call, in-house therapist for both partner and child.
Twenty plus years of being the household manager, keeping track of birthdays and appointments and events and deadlines.
There's also thousands of injections of subQ fluids in there for the multiple cats we've lost to kidney disease. And nursing two 50lb dogs through three separate knee surgeries. And just 99.9% of all pet care in general over the years, to be honest.
And so on and so forth.
In some ways, my shit was easy even. I only had one kid and have been with the same partner the entire time. Though I'm nonbinary and have multiple late-diagnosed neurodivergencies, as well as a pretty nasty anxiety disorder. But I'm also white, which again does reduce the friction I face everywhere.
Seriously. I can't even imagine how much more difficult everything would have been and would continue to be if I were not a white person. It's exhausting and not a little terrifying to contemplate, to be honest.
Point being, all of that work is completely invisible in our society. It's mostly all necessary - how long would things function if moms stopped? - but there's a violent refusal to even look at it.
And when society consistently fails to recognize work as existing, let alone important, it's quite easy for even the direct beneficiaries to not see it as well. When the world continues to expect moms to work invisibly for free, how can we think we're going to ever going to dismantle the patriarchy?

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hikes are very good yes but a deluxe hike is when you are accompanied by a freak with niche nature knowledge. they’re like omg stop there’s a horned valerian varmint beetle here and then you both get to crouch down and look at a bug like :)
I have a friend who is a forest farmer and going anywhere with her is guaranteed to be educational about plants at the very least.
It's very interesting the gendered double-edged sword of being believed about pain. People assumed to be cis men are supposed to tough out pain, repress it, tamp it down. You're not allowed to react to pain because it's a weakness. You're not that hurt, and even if you are, you cannot show it. But then people assumed to be cis women are supposedly weaker, so if you react to pain it's a sign that you're reacting to a lower threshold of pain. You're not that hurt, you're just a woman.
And it's wild because men and women both, cis and trans alike, are so convinced that they are the only ones not believed about pain, not allowed to express certain emotions.
When disability is a connected factor, then there is even greater disbelief, backlash, lack of patience. When mental health is a factor, there is an even greater assumption of low tolerance or delusion. When race is a connected factor, then suddenly Black people are meant to have a higher pain tolerance, so they are allowed to suffer more. Self-medication is expected in some areas, and forbidden in others. Access through financial means is a barrier to care.
There's so many layers to the concept of "I'm not allowed to react to my suffering" that are all true, but every time there is someone making gendered arguments of "UNLIKE MY OPPOSITE" I have to call bullshit. Cis men and women do it to each other, they do it to trans people, trans people do it to each other, and to cis people.
Everyone's pain is being ignored, no one's needs are being met, because we are participating in a hierarchical system that tries to imply inherent superiority, and if anything dampens your assumed superiority then you're weak, and if you can do anything to challenge your assumed weakness then you're a threat.