#fagswag

If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the “correct” feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.

If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.

you better watch out. you better watch out. you better watch out. YOU BETTER WATCH OUT.

He was killed on his THIRD visit.

The first time the locals shot arrows at the kayak he used to get from the fishing boat he hired to the shore.  That dissuaded him for a day.  Then he came back with a large fish as a gift.  The locals accepted the fish and told him to leave.  He whipped out his Bible and they shot up the Bible (as one of his missionary relatives described it to the BBC “The Bible saved his life!”).  Still not taking the hint he returned the next day and, having had enough of his bullshit, they filled him with arrows.

me: *can’t hold a conversation*

me: *has nothing interesting to say*

me: *is bad at replying*