「 ✦ thainperegrin ✦ 」

- ask me things you want to know about me

- why you follow me

- what’s on your mind/what you’re thinking about

- a compliment

- make me choose between two things

- ask for advice

- tell me a secret

- things you associate me with

“You weren’t even together.”

Marissa being legitimately heartbroken and everyone seeing her grieving and unless they happen to know both her and Ryland the FIRST thing they ask is almost always “Were the two of you an item?”

And when she says no then it becomes “did you want to be?” “did you see him as a brother instead?”

Marissa feeling hurt and frustrated because isn’t it enough that they were friends? Is twenty years of late night conversations, inside jokes, tears, laughter, Thursday dinners like clockwork—is that not enough to say she loved him, plain and simple? Is she not allowed to grieve this way, like a piece of her was torn out without anyone even telling her?

Is headcanoning Grace from Project Hail Mary as aroace really a problem and immature, or do you just hate aroace people?

Is headcanoning people as aspec in films really a problem, or do you just see aspec people as immature and less than human, therefore leading you to believe it’s wrong and childish to headcanon characters this way even when it’s heavily implied or people see themselves and their identity in a character.