Disclaimer Iām not saying that people have to LIKE Tara or FORGIVE her. I just have thoughts about it okay. Also keep in mind I havenāt read #36 yet bc I canāt find it anywhere.
Firstly entirely agree that she was groomed and she chooses to be a bad person (up until laymanās sloppy redemption arc)
Tara was only ever like 3/4 years younger than the older titans. When youāre 16 and 19 thereās a big difference but between 26 and 29 there isnāt so much of a difference so I donāt understand their complaint there.
Tara being raised as a princess, within the post n52 story this is true she was raised as a princess just for the first few years of her life until she was forced to leave and the woman helping her escape was literally shot and killed, she lived on the street from then on and while she isnāt given an age itās safe to assume sheās relatively young based on the way sheās drawn. So she was on the street from letās say 10 at the latest until she met Slade at 15. Firstly being raised in the palace as a bastard with a father who disregards you and specifically neglects you compared to his other children (because youāre a bastard) we technically donāt even know if she WAS in the palace for long all we know is that she was in that palace that one night. She then died at 16/17 (hard to tell bc priest made her 17 when Slade and Tara split up but JC is recanonised so we donāt fully know abt it she was 16/17) I wouldnāt call that a good childhood personally. Maybe thatās just me. Especially if you take into consideration Priestās blog post about Tara being used by other men before Slade.
Brion did and does love Tara and wants her at his side, however we donāt know if Tara knows this. The majority of Brionās love for Tara is shown posthumously like LW+T and the outsiders 09. In post n52 they havenāt even spoken, we do know that they love each other because shadow war and bc she asked about him as she was escaping Markovia. But having one (total) supportive figure in your life doesnāt magically make your life better. Especially not if you donāt interact with them.
āShe joins Slade in priests runā *LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER. Okay she does, but the thing about Tara is sheās a liar. Itās revealed that the whole time she was in defiance she was working with Addie and Wintergreen to try and have Slade locked up, thats why Addie picked her, thatās why he did that big āyou were a childā moment and thatās why he wound up in Arkham after defiance. Defiance was a hero team, their goals were ultimately good though flawed and Sladeās way of inciting crises was an issue. But the kids on the team were all doing, and trying to be good. Slade was trying to be good too (no killing, road to Damascus moment, after the time travel in Lazarus contract). Tara was working for a heroic organisation and trying to put the morally corrupt leader of it behind bars, to me that doesnāt feel like a āstaying on the antagonist side.ā But whatever.
Laymanās titans, she didnāt bring Slade back to life Slade was being kept alive by the heroes #nokillrule and she expedited his healing (which the heros were already giving him) and freed him. She didnāt choose to do that just because she felt like it and she was just fucking with the titans bc she wanted to. She was working for Waller and felt out of her depths and went to the evil she knew rather than what she didnāt know. She knows Slade, she knows how he works and she chose to get his help rather than having unpredictablity.
This is the thing for me, I donāt see how people can see Tara constantly going back to her abuser and saying āwow sheās so evil for that.ā Idk guys maybe the manipulation and grooming had an impact on her psyche and ability to trust. Iām not saying she has Stockholm syndrome or whatever Iām just saying that as someone who has also been groomed the bond they build with you is hard to move past and even years later I find myself missing my groomer despite knowing what he did to me was wrong and that he didnāt love me. Tara going back to Slade repeatedly isnāt her always choosing evil itās her choosing the man who she believe loved her. Itās choosing a familiar pain over an unknown life. The way I view it is essentially as a form of self harm honestly, she knows how the story goes yet keeps on repeating it because itās what she knows.
Maybe if Brion found her he couldāve helped her? Maybe she wouldnāt have chosen evil. The thing is she doesnāt know that he loves her, she doesnāt know that heād do literally anything for her. What she does know is Slade and how loved he made her feel.
Once again I agree and donāt think anyone has to like or forgive her I just donāt think sheās given the grace she deserves for the situation she was and is in. Tara started doing contracts out of necessity, how else is a girl on the street going to survive? Just because her fatherās a king doesnāt mean she was treated LIKE a princess. I feel this analysis of her and her story is very surface level and doesnāt think about the intricacies of her, her actions, her mental health and how all of those things intertwine.
Now she is finally on a redemption arc and there arguments that she doesnāt deserve it because she was mean, thatās the point of the arc. I think a majority of this is Laymanās fault because my god was her redemption sloppy. But you canāt write her off as ātotally evilā or a ātotal psychoā and not give her a chance to redeem herself when sheās actually working for THE good guys for a change.
Iām saying this as someone who thinks Tara should be an anti-hero/villain. I donāt particularly think having her on the titans is a good idea for her but itās what sheās got and I think she deserves a chance to change.