noun:  an adult female human being.

Hello, Radblr,

I’m another (very tired) lesbian who had to turn to a side blog in order to be able to fully speak about womanhood and what it means to be female in this penis-loving world. Once I was a true believer of liberal feminism, raising flags of diversity and praising those courageous enough to seek for their “true identity”. I was one of those brainwashed young girls shouting how evil terfs were and avoiding reading anything written by terfs as if I was committing heresy. But I’m lesbian and when you’re a woman who loves women you’ll eventually notice that the current LGBTQI+ community just isn’t a safe place for you and your woman-centered love life.

While posting about lesbian struggles and the absolute hysteria that’s the current LGBT movement on my main blog (the one I had for nearly 10 years) I came across such violent reactions from people I knew (online) for a long time that it left me not only dumbstruck but afraid of sharing my beliefs. After a while it kinda enrages you. As I was searching for women sharing the same concerns as I had, I came across radical feminists, the evil terfs. And I agreed with them. Maybe this is why “kweer” people ask you not to interact with terf women, right?

So as a way to avoid getting doxxed and to be able to fully express what I feel, I decided to start a new blog, meet women that won’t hunt me down like a criminal, and just share & learn. I’m 24, lesbian, mixed-raced, and fully out of the closet since 2009. I’m anti-prostitution (not anti-prostitutes), anti-porn (A.K.A. broadcasted rape) and anti-BDSM (sex is not about violence). I don’t believe trans women are women, as they’re biological males, there’s no “lady brain” and ‘woman’ is not a feeling. Speaking of biology, I’m not a science denier or a relativist, biology is real and not something randomly assigned. I believe gender is oppression.

 I do believe trans people deserve civil rights as I believe in Human Rights, but 1) not at the cost of female rights and 2) sex is not a human right (hello, cotton-ceiling). I don’t believe all transwomen are predators, I truly believe there are transwomen minding their own business and trying to live their lives in peace and I’m willing to use their preferred names and pronouns in a well-mannered discussion, but I don’t trust the political aspect of the trans community and their political agenda, as I was constantly exposed to their violent replies to women with different world views, the systemic denial of science, the crusade to destroy sex-based rights, the erasure of language, their blatant homophobia and lesbophobia (modern conversion therapy) and the obnoxious online grooming of gnc gays and lesbians. 

I respect people’s pronouns as a way to show courtesy to people that respect me and civilly discuss with me, even tho I believe that non-binary women are females with I’m Not Like The Other Girls Complex taking male stereotypes as the default form even for gender-neutral language and aesthetics, while throwing other women under the bus because “they identify with their assigned gender” (news flash: gender is oppression, no women identifies with their oppression). I believe this non-binary trend is a way for women to escape internalized misogyny and the pain of being female, also, lots of teenagers mistaking personality traits for gender. Wearing pants and a short haircut doesn’t erase your material reality as a female.

How the fuck are those societal rules and not biological facts because human beings have sexual dimorphism? Those are not socially constructed concepts, those are objective aspects of your material reality as a male. How come now we're addressing secondary and even primary (!) sex characteristics as subjective ideas that 1) were put in place by the evil CIStem and 2) need to change in order to establish social progress?

And then they go like “lemme use these 3rd world indigenous people that I know nothing about as a token to say there are matriarchal societies, therefore patriarchy isn’t universal”.

First of all, matrilineality and matrilocality aren’t the same as a matriarchal society. There isn’t evidence of it. Don’t conflate these terms, don’t be silly.

Second of all, it’s stupid and intellectually wrong to pick villages comprised of a few dozen people or even less, in which women have an important status that are only in practice because it’s validated by men to use it as strong evidence to affirm that not all of half the population of this planet is dominated by the other half.