I find it so disturbing. Tickling is an intimate act. People have real feelings, real physical and/or emotional injuries, people have real trauma. And this particular reaction to it does nothing but contribute to the overall culture of shame and fear, AND to the culture that puts people in harm’s way because they’re being fed a narrative that their safety and boundaries are unimportant, or that they’re overreacting when they feel harmed. You should reevaluate. It IS that serious. It really is.

if somebody truly believes that consent and safety is important then ACT ON IT. it’s not a “rules apply to thee and not me” scenario. stop defending people who do harm. stop defending somebody just because they’re your friend. stop defending people because you don’t want the drama. DO NOT CONTRIBUTE TO THE PROBLEM IF YOU WANT TO SEE THE CHANGE!

Yeah, and what are you gonna do about it? Oh, that's right, giggle like a little baby while I hold your wrists above your head.

Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys

like why was i cursed with this 😩

Happy tuesday 🍀🪶