Playing with My Food 💕

I'd love to take you to a park full of joggers, wearing clothes that are way too small for you, revealing your jiggly cellulite to everyone. Having you stuff yourself like a pig on a public bench in a sweat-stained t-shirt and yoga pants, unshowered, validating every possible negative fat stereotype.

I'd have you look at all those fit girls running around while whispering in your ear how much of a hog you've become and how far you are drifting from anything considered a functional woman ; yet whispering how much I crave it. Telling you to open that box of donuts the second you are done with your burger to disable yourself a bit more. Whispering that you probably shouldn't even bother showering tonight either, since you're far too lazy for that anyway.

It’s so weird going shopping and seeing a top that I think would fit me and it turns out it’s super tight as fuck because I no longer wear a small/medium 🐷

I totally agree! I think a lot of it is fatphobia, but also the inability to understand kink and anything that is “outside” of your own way of life.

Feedism is about consent, it’s about autonomy over our bodies, it’s about expressing ourselves in the way we see fit!

People see all feedism as coercive and it’s always the hot button topics like death feedism that get the most attention. I can say for all the people I’ve met in the community, none of us are being coerced or forced to do anything, we are all glad to be here. We have had this fetish our whole lives and it’s been insanely isolating and shameful. That’s why it’s so important to find community and break the isolation - realize you have nothing to be ashamed of and you are completely justified in loving what you love!

On the topic of death feedism - for 90% of people it’s just a fantasy. It’s something that’s hot to roleplay or think about, but not actually something they are aiming for. But for the 10% of people who are really serious about achieving it, who are you to tell someone what to do with their body and life? If someone is making the conscious decision to go down that path, then what is really the problem? It may seem like extreme because IT IS EXTREME. That is kink. It doesn’t always fit in a perfect box you can put on the shelf and forget about when you see fit.