16 Uncomfortable Feelings That Actually Indicate Youâre On The Right Path
1. Feeling as though you are reliving your childhood struggles.You find that youâre seeing issues you struggled with as a kid reappear in your adult life, and while on the surface this may seem like a matter of not having overcome them, it really means you are becoming conscious of why you think and feel, so you can change it.
2. Feeling âlost,â or directionless. Feeling lost is actually a sign youâre becoming more present in your life â youâre living less within the narratives and ideas that you premeditated, and more in the moment at hand. Until youâre used to this, it will feel as though youâre off track (you arenât).
3. âLeft brainâ fogginess. When youâre utilizing the right hemisphere more often (youâre becoming more intuitive, youâre dealing with emotions, youâre creating) sometimes it can seem as though âleft brainâ functions leave you feeling fuzzy. Things like focusing, organizing, remembering small details suddenly become difficult.
4. Having random influxes of irrational anger or sadness that intensify until you canât ignore them anymore. When emotions erupt itâs usually because theyâre âcoming upâ to be recognized, and our job is to learn to stop grappling with them or resisting them, and to simply become fully conscious of them (after that, we control them, not the opposite way around).
5. Experiencing unpredictable and scattered sleeping patterns.Youâll need to sleep a lot more or a lot less, youâll wake up in the middle of the night because you canât stop thinking about something, you find yourself full of energy or completely exhausted, and with little in-between.
6. A life-changing event is taking place, or just has. You suddenly having to move, getting divorced, losing a job, having a car break down, etc.
7. Having an intense need to be alone. Youâre suddenly disenchanted with the idea of spending every weekend out socializing, and other peopleâs problems are draining you more than they are intriguing you. This means youâre re-calibrating.
8. Intense, vivid dreaming that you almost always remember in detail. If dreams are how your subconscious mind communicates with you (or projects an image of your experience) then yours is definitely trying to say something. Youâre having dreams at an intensity that youâve never experienced before.
9. Downsizing your friend group; feeling more and more uncomfortable around negative people. The thing about negative people is that they rarely realize they are negative, and because you feel uncomfortable saying anything (and youâre even more uncomfortable keeping that in your life) youâre ghosting a bit on old friends.
10. Feeling like the dreams you had for your life are collapsing.What you do not realize at this moment is that it is making way for a reality better than you could have thought of, one thatâs more aligned with who you are, not who you thought you would be.
11. Feeling as though your worst enemy are your thoughts.Youâre beginning to realize that your thoughts do create your experience, and itâs often not until weâre pushed to our witâs end that we even try to take control of them â and thatâs when we realize that we were in control all along.
12. Feeling unsure of who you really are. Your past illusions about who you âshouldâ be are dissolving. You feel unsure because it is uncertain! Youâre in the process of evolving, and we donât become uncertain when we change for the worse (we become angry and closed off). In other words: if what youâre experiencing is insecurity or uncertainty, itâs usually going to lead to something better.
13. Recognizing how far you still have to go. When you realize this, itâs because you can also see where youâre headed, it means you finally know where and who you want to be.
14. âKnowingâ things you donât want to know. Such as what someone is really feeling, or that a relationship isnât going to last, or that you wonât be at your job much longer. A lot of âirrationalâ anxiety comes from subconsciously sensing something, yet not taking it seriously because it isnât logical.
15. Having a radically intense desire to speak up for yourself.Becoming angry with how much youâve let yourself be walked on, or how much youâve let other peopleâs voices get into your head is a sign that youâre finally ready to stop listening, and love yourself by respecting yourself first.
16. Realizing you are the only person responsible for your life, and your happiness. This kind of emotional autonomy is terrifying, because it means that if you mess up, itâs all on you. At the same time, realizing it is the only way to be truly free. The risk is worth the reward on this one, always
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