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I want to have a conversation with my fellow fat folk on here about sex and intimacy AS a fat person, and how important it is to be with someone who is not just “okay with” or “doesn’t mind” your fat. How important it is that when you are in love with yourself for who you are and are working on your self love, that you have intimate partners who aren’t only touching up on you when you’re alone. Who wanna rub up on your belly and your rolls and your dimples and shit, not just recite Drake ‘BBW’ lyrics and recycled Katt Williams’ jokes about stretch marks. It’s important to me that I am with someone who likes and loves everything about me, including every inch of my presently fat body. Someone who can and wants to be around me in my cute ass tank top and panties with my belly out and my legs kicked up on the couch cute as shit. Someone who sees those bad days, those dark days when I don’t love myself as much and I’m feeling down about myself, and is able to pull me up and remind me how amazing I am. Someone who isn’t fetishizing my fat but sees that I love myself and I’m still working on loving myself and my fat body, and is an active part of that love.

Second, I want to ask you…

How would you know racism doesn’t exist? 

How would it affect your life? 

There are about 77% of white people in America. So your the majority. 

Congress is 80% white. 

About 70% white people in federal government services. 

80% of faculty, including principals, superintendents, boards of education members, etc, in Education in America are WHITE.

THIS INCLUDES HIGHER EDUCATION.  ALL OF THEM.  

Most Communities are Segregated in America. 

So Whites Live with Whites. 

Whites only is a thing still.

Almost 90% of law enforcement is white. 

79% of judges are white. 

95% of prosecutors are white. 83% of them are men. 

In the private sector people of color make up a 1/3 of the labor force. 

Which means 64% are White. 

95% of CEOs and upper Executives of  Business/Companies are White.

Three quarters of white people in America don’t have non white friends. 

So how does racism affect you? 

Would you see racism? 

And since white people are the majority of every sector/system in America, how could you see racism? 

Are you saying White people are racist against other White people? 

Racism is about power. Not words. If a white person called me Nigger, I’d be angry, and I’d cuss them out. And maybe I’d woop some ass, but other then that…….

That’s about how much that affects my day. But if this same person who called me a nigger was let’s say my teacher. There lies the problem. They have the power over my education, and my GPA. So them being prejudice, and anti black affects my life. It’s about POWER. And since whites dominate every system in this country. White people have the power to affect your income, education,food, environment,housing etc. 

Racism= Prejudice + POWER

All you have to do is look at Hurricane Katrina. 

  Flint Michigan 

Detroit Michigan

Dear White People,

How would you know racism doesn’t exist anymore? 

You wouldn’t.

the man here has his mouth covered up by a woman wearing a wedding ring. meaning he is being abused by his wife. of the men i’ve known and spoken to about being abused by their wives, one of the common ways wives will try to “make up” for the abuse is literally with money. fucking crazy sad shit but women who abuse their men (bf or husband) also believe us to be super materialistic and so they can just buy us. i could go on but i don’t want to. it’s too fucking gross. 

this is clearly pedophila in the catholic church. a profoundly evil act that is is primarily aimed at little boys. 

this is child molestation in the black community that tarted little black girls overwhelmingly. usually by a family member and usually a male family member.

and this is an abused wife. the hand is male wearing a wedding ring. similar to the wife abusing the husband, an attempt to buy silence happens with flowers, candy and jewelry being the common gifts.