#zeldaconcert

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hiii, can Bonnie answer this just because she’s been the person to answer my previous submissions? also this is another really long long post so i’m extremely sorry.

anywhoo hi this is the girl regarding the zelda concert..not sure if you remember but it was about telling my guy friend that i couldn’t go to that concert and how i felt like he still liked me, well anyways that’s past and i didn’t go and he understand that i had to work and didn’t want to take it off but he asked if i felt awkward just going with him and his family and i was like “yeah it’s a bit awkward” and he understood that too…but anyways i’m back in school now and i’ve been so busy and he got mad at me because i don’t talk to him anymore.  we used to talk daily but now i’m so busy that  I don’t have time to talk to anyone so anyways we ended up talking somehow and he told me that our conversations were getting boring, that we’ve run out of things to talk about. and then he went to say that i fish for compliments too much because i always say how awkward i am and how i don’t think i’m pretty but honestly i’m just very self conscious about those things and then he was like “yeah well i feel obligated to compliment you”. anyways he was just sooo bitter towards me and he told me he was disappointed that i couldn’t go to the zelda concert, like really disappointed which got me to asking if he still liked me and he kept avoiding the question. he said “i will always like you but maybe not romantically” and i felt like that didn’t answer my question…and then he said that basically me along with the other 4 girls he’s really liked before are “essentially part of a club in his heart” and that really creeped me out. like i just found it kinda weird. and then he started saying how he doesn’t like it when i ask him to find me a guy who looks like this one celebrity i like, and i really am not serious about it, i joke about it a lot but he told me it hurts him and it hurts his pride. anyways he started saying that he thought our conversations were boring because all we did was small talk and he said that he enjoyed this conversation idk maybe because it was more meaningful? anywho my question is do you think he still likes me? i actually told him he needed space from me because that whole thing pretty much made me feel awkward and i really do feel like he still likes me.

this is really mean but i don’t feel like talking to him anymore.  I actually had to give him money for a concert i went to with him and our other friends because he paid for all the tickets on his card. the concert was like a few months back though and i just never had the money to pay him, so i finally did and he was really awkward about it and eventually said that when i paid him, it felt like our friendship was over….like i’m just really confused.  With this whole situation i just feel like he thinks i owe him my feelings or something because of how close we got. But i’ve always made clear that i see him like an older brother. He said he might move to LA and if he does he said he’ll break our silence then…but honestly i really don’t want to talk to him anymore. is that mean? our mutual friend told me that i’m overreacting and that he just cherishes my friendship with him…but i really felt so awkward and kinda annoyed because he was extremely bitter and it seemed like a bf complaining to their gf and i AM NOT his gf.once again sorry for this long post. if you could go ahead and make this anon even though i didn’t go anon when i submitted it. also just tag it as zeldaconcert again. thank you (:

Hey it’s great to hear from you again :) I do remember you!

From what he’s said, yeah I definitely think he still has a crush on you. Just by the things he’s said and the way he’s said them, it seems a little weird and creepy some of it and I think he’s hurt that you didn’t return his feelings and that’s why he’s being a little mean to you? If you don’t like him like that, it’s probably best for you two to get some space between you guys. It’s not your fault that you don’t return his feelings, it’s just life and it’s something he’s going to have to deal with. But feelings can really make a friendship sour unfortunately :/ I think some space would be best for you, especially if he’s making you feel awkward or uncomfortable!

Don’t let him manipulate your feelings or make you feel bad, you can’t help who you like and don’t like. Spend time with other friends, let him go for now. If he’s making you uncomfortable in any way, it’s totally okay for you to break off that friendship! You don’t have to feel bad if he’s being weird or he’s behaving like you owe him something. You never lead him on, you don’t owe him anything and you guys weren’t together. He can’t help his feelings but he can help his behaviour. If he can’t just be your friend, he’s not worth staying friends with. Don’t let him make you feel guilty friend! Put yourself first, always. Hope that helps somewhat, I’m always here if you need to talk <3

I’ve gone to nerd heaven, and let me tell you, it’s nerdgasmic.

Friends, I just watched The Legend of Zelda: Symphony of the Goddesses. Holy crap. Holy crap.

Let me tell you. From the beginning of the concert to the intermission, my hair was standing on end, and I had the biggest grin on my face. At the end, for the Wind Waker movement, the conductor whipped out a Wind Waker. Oh my god. It was about as much as I could take.

By the intermission, I was about ready to pass out, so it was the perfect time for a breather. By the second half, the initial shock and awe had worn off, so not as much hair standing on end, but still some great music.

Definitely a lot of fan service, and even though it’s possible that they might’ve oversold the degree to which the orchestra members were fans of the series, I’d like to think that a good portion of them felt connected to the music as much as the audience did.

I would have liked some of the movements to have been longer (especially towards the end), and it would’ve been nice if they played more stuff that wasn’t on the CD that came with Skyward Sword, but overall, it was a very good show. I would watch it again.