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12 Days of Zayn

Day 8 - Favourite pic of Zayn & why (tag your friends so they do it too!)*

My child has decided to go full steam ahead into the terrible twos so I haven’t been on lately but here’s my pic(s) (it was at the same event so I’m counting them as one don’t judge me!!!) I was tagged by @awakefromdusktilldawn thank hun!

I just love the versatility of this man looking Zaddy af to a fucking teddy bear. Like who can do this? Nobody but my man, that smolder and such a strong eyebrow game like bitch!!! And then to come out looking like a fucking angel in the next shot like if this man was born in the 1800’s there would be sculptures to capture his beauty. The difference between such a strong and masculine pose to soften up and show genuine emotion of pride and happiness I’m crying RN. Zayn really DID THAT! God I havent been on here in awhile babes so I’m not gonna tag anybody cuz I don’t know if you’ve done this or not if yoh haven’t pretend I tagged you and tag me so I can see your posts

First of all thank you she’s such a cutie! Also boy do I lol, sometimes when I’m enjoying some down time I like to think of how awesome a dad Zayn would be tbh

Zayn would try to be the best parent for his child he could, he would probably have at least 5 parenting books and maybe even go to parenting classes to understand why his child does something or how to help them grow to be a great person(and also freak out and be always googling if his child is developing normally cuz he can’t find anything in this stupid book)

I 100% believe Zayn would read to his kid everyday(or at least try to) and would even have books in Urdu and books about his culture(going as far as to pay extra shipping because damn it literally no one carries books that aren’t in English) for his child to learn about and he would read to them and give them stories about his childhood

Being a 90s kid Zayn would have a nostalgia about kids programing from when he grew up and probably put some shows he saw as a kid on for his child and when the kid gets obsessed and only wants to watch the show he’ll realize while at the time seemed like a fun idea he is now singing that stupid song he has heard a million times now under his breath (maaaaaiiiiiillll!!!!!!!) He probably would also try to find children’s programing in Urdu for his child to absorb and learn from(thank you YouTube)

Music! Zayn would sing to his kid as a baby and put on music all the time, he would play music he loved growing up in Urdu as well as music from his culture. As they grow into a toddler they would have dance parties to be silly and dance around(cuz babies don’t judge) and maybe even involve them in the song making process

While I don’t think Zayn would be the type of parent to match his child’s clothing to his he definitely would have a lot of superhero and nerdy clothes maybe even some traditional garb from his culture maybe one or two cute outfits that he matched with his (the original and the remix t-shirts) eventually he’ll realize a t-shirt and diaper or even just a diaper is the cutest and easiest thing for the child to run around the house in

He would definitely be a parent who would help develop his child’s creative side to its fullest extent like coloring all the time putting a tarp down and letting them go wild with paint and letting them go ham on a piano and clapping proudly at the wild composition his child has made

Animal lover Zayn would have an animal lover child who would love all the doggies and kitties a little to much and Zayn would definitely have to save them from a well intended but waaaaay too rough petting or hug and pet food would have to be hidden from wondering hands and mouths

Being an introvert he maybe won’t have too many parent friends but he would have at least one he can go to the park with to talk to while the kids run around have go to baby story time and/or toddler Time and have fun with the little ones dancing and singing along someone he can relate to and talk about how his child is growing and bounce ideas off of

I fully believe that he would want his child to be bilingual or multilingual and he would repeat what he said in each language like he would say something in English and repeat it in Urdu or something in Urdu and repeat it in English because that way the child is absorbing the language as fully as possible(which he read in a parenting book)

Single parent Zayn would cosleep with his baby because he’d be paranoid that he wouldn’t be able to wake up in the middle of night unless the baby was crying in his ear later he would discover that this was the dumbest idea ever and now the crib is filled with toys and his toddler thinks that that putting their foot in Zayns face is the funniest thing ever(Coparent Gigi would enforce that the baby sleep in their crib maybe in their room for the first few months and then transfer the baby to the nursery later)

Zayn would be like all parents and not care how much he spends on his child but carefully try not to spend too much on himself (even if he’s rich he’s still not buying a car he doesn’t even need)

Zayn would love to keep family traditions going as well as make his own with his kid he would as do stuff he always wanted to do as kid with his child that he wasn’t allowed

He wouldn’t be too strict but he would understand the importance of setting boundaries and sticking to them to help his child become well rounded he wouldn’t spoil his child too much at least he would try not to but he wants to give his child the best he can and what he didn’t have growing up

I believe 100% he would treat his child the same whether they are a girl or a boy (all my head canons apply from birth to 2 years old) he would have read in a parenting book that boys are spoken to less and girls aren’t taught a lot about numbers at young ages and he would go out of his way to do the opposite and speak constantly to his son and teach his daughter numbers most toys would be developmental and gender neutral if his daughter wanted a truck he would let her if his son wanted a doll he would let him(even though their favorite toy in the end is from Dollar tree not the 80$ toy that lights up makes music is developmental and magically bilingual)

I think Zayn would try to stop smoking for the kid but as a smoker myself I can tell you it’s hard quitting and everyone in awhile it doesn’t hurt anybody never around the baby

My headcanons is Zayn would try his best as a parent he would learn from his experience growing up he would lean on his dad for guidance about becoming a dad himself and nurture his child to the best of his abilities