#yelling softly

walhallawaits​

leaves their dirty clothes on the floor - Spider probably does without meaning to when he’s sicky and not feeling good so obvs Capable doesn’t care at all because she cares more about him unu

forgets to run the dish washer - Spider can sometimes but he usually will remember and frantically goes to start it EVEN THO SHE WOULD NEVER BE MAD bb pls

pumps gas for the car - Spider does unless he’s not feeling good then Capable makes him chill out and let her do it.

drives when they’re going somewhere - I guess either rly .o. Again tho Capable more so if he’s not feeling good

rearranges the furniture - Spider watching in confused amusement as she continues to move things for the millionth time because it’s never quite right

falls asleep with the TV on - Either tbh OR BOTH HONESTLY they snuggle all the time on the couch watching tv

gets to use the bathroom first - Spider would probably insist on letting her use it first because he’s a sweetie, but she has him use it first if he needs to because pls……….

decides the temperature for the ac/heater - Capable has him tell her what he needs basically, be it to be warmer or cooler

sets up holiday decorations - THEY WOULD BOTH BE NERDS ABOUT IT TBH……. adorable

leaves the lights on - Spider forgets to turn them off sometimes, but so can she, they have each other’s backs uvu

uses the bathroom with the door open - I feel like Spider would be the most likely since he’s like ‘shrug’ about people being naked omg nerd