anyway my mother was just like “this is my problem with muslim modesty. she won’t let her daughter go out in a normal swimsuit.” and i just was like “????? YOU wouldn’t let me go out in a normal swimsuit. i had to wear ugly ass one peice swimsuits with shorts on and i was SO jealous of the other girls who got to show their belly buttons.” and she’s like “well thats different! i didn’t want men staring at you” im just sitting here like “that’s literally her motivation! she just has a different standard of modesty!”