I think I've forgotten how to socialize. I'm always alone, always isolating myself. People think I'm sensitive and an overthinker. I'm misunderstood so when I speak up my mind, it's like I'm the bad person. I just want to bring back my old self.
Isolation seems to be doing that, hey. And for people that already find it hard to socialise, and had worked themselves into some sort of rhythm, isolation really burns that progress.
I actually know a few people who deal with the same misunderstood dilemma. One of my dearest friends is pegged as a bitch and insensitive, but it all comes from the fact that she isnât very adapt at reading people and situations.
I have another close pal who is pegged as rude and abrupt. In her mind, she is speaking the truth and giving people what they need. What she lacks is seeing things from their point of view. And when she does see it, she doesnât see the point in acknowledging that, for logicâs sake.
I think if a few people are mentioning it, maybe have a look at how you communicate with people. My best advice for this is to stop formulating your own reply and opinion and listen to the full extent of what theyâre saying and how theyâre actually feeling. Sometimes your response will be slow, thatâs okay - they will feel heard.
Donât trade in your personality. There a huge benefits to being sensitive. People need sensitive people. Situations need sensitive people. But if youâre feeling like youâre being isolated by others, take a look at how youâre treating them. Pray on it.