soulerflaire replied to your post:
Aw jeez : ( what the hell is wrong with them? That's really mean and uncalled for them to say, not to mention completely unacceptable in a work environment.
The comments about being ‘mean’ or ‘snippy’ were were probably meant more playfully than I took them as. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t think about those comments and maybe take that into account for the future.
Today’s thing though, about the very sound of my voice actively pissing my coworker off, hit waaay too close to insecurities about people secretly hating me and that kind of thing. Apparently she didn’t mean it that way? But the way she said it - over headset - and then how no one called her on it???? Left me feeling like she meant that.