#womansim

is it just me, or does misogynoir give a worse feeling than racism and misogyny on their own? because like, i’m not just being mistreated because i’m black, or because i’m a woman, it’s specifically because i’m a black woman🙃 like if i was a man, or even just a different race, i wouldn’t be getting treated this way. something about how specific misogynoir is makes it feel worse to me.

I just *cringe* at the entitlement men are socialized to have over acesss to women, our minds and bodies. That they think just because they personally consider themselves a nice guy, they automatically deserve someone they’re very much so attracted to, despite the woman’s contradictory feelings about it. That if they feel like a woman is into them, even with no direct confirmation, that they’re entitled to us “finishing what we started,” even if we didn’t have any romantic intentions or later changed our minds about those intentions. That if a woman is making them angry or sad, they’re entitled to treating us any kind of harsh way for daring to emotionally provoke them, whether that provoking is completely uncalled for or not.

where is blm when it comes to black femicide??? i’ve seen blm show more support to palestine than i’ve seen them show on the issue of black women and girls being murdered at the high rates that we are. this pisses me off.

is misogynoir driving anyone else completely insane? like, almost to the point of sewerside??

idk if this bad or ignorant of me, but i am pro black women doing whatever is going to make them happy as long as it’s not negatively impacting someone else. the world is both racist and misogynist and loves to tear black women down and makes us feel small. so whether it’s getting a nose job, or teaching polar bears to do cartwheels, or wearing a wig, walking on a tight rope over a pool of jello, im all for black women doing whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️ do whateverrrr is going to make you happy, in a world that only wants to see you sad.