how to block a fandom.. ugh sigh vvv
trying to not be so involved in the fandom or so. idk how. (winter hiatus is gonna be hell)Â
everyoneâs keep bashing on the show and saying mean stuff. be careful what u wish for. Â
itâs gonna be fine. itâs just a show, u can do whatever with it, quit it, not take it seriously, or just #anti-
i guess when a show is old and changing..or thereâs a big fandom on online, thereâs more fandom wank than Iâm used to think there was before(the 1% theory). Iâm more on the unpopular opinion-side (I always do). More bitter people and I feel like theyâre missing out on some cool stuff that is still there, but theyâre too bitter and impatient to see it. Fandom...internet places...people are generally negative? (people donât like grey angsty arcs) Anyways, i just wanna focus on the positive stuff when i go online or to think. I understand some just wanna chat and rant, and some have other different reasons why they go online etc.
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ok so i think u just limit to a lot of fandom things. some rules..? this is hard to do. just donât go on it so much.
-***most of the time, people/fan donât need the fandom. Fandom is just on the side. I feel like being part of the fandom is like being part of a group or family and just helping people out. Itâs like youâre just making up extra time to help/squee/argue people. Idk ..I can not be part of the fandom. //Fandom seems to care about being right, shipping, faveâs attention. Not much on analyzing on story. People suck. -Give a F*ck budget, money, time, energy.
-****try to avoid places where u see peopleâs opinions(comments/posts) all the time or just view it in short time. (also avoid negative rude people ect. -only read on positive peopleâs) Itâs hard because fan forum sites, thereâs great convo/analyzing/meta discussion in there that u sometimes donât see in it like tumblr. But, lately i see people hate-watching commenting. (like âofc, showrunner does this.â âi hope rating goes down so my fave actor can have a better job opportunity, or show it in showrunnerâs face my ship is better than the notp and the spotlight.â ..really a lot of fans say the same things in any fandom. is it even true? )
-kinda..avoid stans...shipper stans. they only care about a ship. ok thatâs kinda harsh..but yeah theyâre most likely to be bitter because the show focus on other characters/ships too. Also, skim past the dramatic/jealous-like posts.Â
-..idk why, but people like to compare all the time. criticize and judge quickly. like ok....why not both (fave ships)? Why compare faves? Good thing the show is just focusing on everyone..ok. Oh, and the whole this character is âweakâ ok ..so say it to a disabled veteran or an abused wife. sigh. I donât want to see a show with perfect strong superheroes. BORING! This show is not a boring video game. idk..some people donât think ...critically or long-term.. like come on..this show, most shows are about characters and them being strong emotionally and physically in their challenges. Also, another thing, idk why fans focus on what the writers are saying but not thinking on the other characters too. Like if the show focus on a character apologizing to another character. That character who apologized= fandom hates him/her. But this other character who is a dick but the show doesnât address it and doesnât redeem him/her = fandom doesnât care or notice it. Another is that fandom donât like complex character...female characters blah blah. Idk whatâs my point here. fandom popularity? so just know that sometimes fandom is just so immature, annoying and rude. So, try to avoid it.
-not a lot of people are overall-fans, so...thereâs more wank for me to see it. same with being a multi-shipper, i see more wank too. Like me shipping c@ryl and r!chonne. boy, i see hate on all of them on per character. (because people who donât like c@ryl are not r!chonners...but they may also ship r!chonne. idk why itâs c ship vs. r ship. itâs just ABD/C shippers.)
-oh, thing about generalizing. People love to generalize. sigh. I should try not to be so sensitive in the fandom or Iâm so caught up in fandom wank. i should not take it seriously when people generalize...anyways people generalize things and that always create drama/fandom wank. omg. ugh. Sometimes, these people are ones that just plain assholes. So, block them. Sometimes, itâs just they said it wrong and/or thought it wrong. So, idk. Try to say âIMO,...â âSome shippers...â
-idk if itâs accurate...but my theory or what i heard..is that the show is the showrunnerâs/writerâs show. Itâs not mine and itâs not the fansâ show. Everyoneâs have different likes and wants. Writers canât please everyone. I heard that itâs good that the showrunnerâs stick to what s/he wants because itâs their story and itâs not giving fanservice to please different types of people all the time.If they keep pleasing other people, it makes the show inconsistent and frustrating. Criticisms is ok but I think showrunners know and see it and they decide what to do with it.Â
- ratings. ok so thatâs hard to handle. itâs just part of being a tv fan. itâs all show business kind of thing. just be realistic. showâs gonna end someday. hopefully there will be a good conclusion and how the writers want it to go for the show. nothingâs goes fair and perfect on shows. (like thereâs actors leaving or canceling) I donât believe in those theories on changing writerâs minds on character/ships and stuff.
-putting words into actorâs/writerâs mouth. i hate that. These fans are obviously biased and ..like entitled-fans. (kinda like bad irl shippers too) This annoys so much. No one knows what the actors/writers are really thinking. Thatâs their personal life and they have their own personal opinions. so, saying this actor wants to leave because the show sucks, character is not focused as much, or they hate their co-stars. Itâs soooo dumb and so rude. u donât know them. what if the actor wants to leave because of sick family or just want to change careers or whatever. I just would rather have the facts and actorâs statement to say what really is going on. I donât wanna theorize on biased-rumors. I also..just not into actorâs life. Like Iâm not into idolizing actors/other performers etc., because I just donât know them fully and ..it always end up disappointing..(like omg she smokes? omg sheâs a drunk driver? omg she got married to that guy eew why?). So, idolize ..a little. My point is..idk just skim past the entitled fans...
-i like this advice from someone, ... go to #showedits Maybe even go to #showspoilers.( Well to look at overall of the show and gifsets. but thereâs still wank, so idk.)
-i feel like idk what to think about the show because i feel like Iâm worried about the fansâs feelings/thoughts and wonder whatâs their reactions will be this time after an ep aired. Iâm so caught up on fandom that idk what i myself like on the show or think whatâs right. ....So I take a moment to myself and think on what I like and donât like in an episode. Write out your feels! ...donât need to have the fandom anyway.
-always ask, do i still trust the writers? Does my fave characters still in-character and I understand where the story or seasonâs story is going? Do I still like it?// Just know what kind of show it is. itâs just a show on that day to watch. maybe not get so invested next time. Or, to quit the show, find a spot in the show and say thatâs my finale ep of the show for me. ..and thereâs fanfictions. just make one up in ur head, an ending, and then move on. These are all fictional stories, you can do whatever with it.
-if ya wanna rant negative. imo, i like to just write it out and tag it #anti- and put it under âkeep readingâ. idk, deal with it, on what the show is, realistically. grieve it. itâs ok to quit a show. /////sometimes, when im confused of the plot and get mad at the writers, sometimes itâs best to wait it out...sometimes the writers already know about the âproblem/drama of the plotâ and they make sense later on.
-focus on what u like about the show. Do fan art! look at fan art, read fanfiction, and fan videos! Write it out on what u like and speculate. get it out of ur chest.
-during hiatus, thereâs more fandom wank. sometimes, just wait a day, the wank is not there anymore. so, do fan art, or just go look into another show and stuff. take a break.
-having unpopular opinions. oh well. what the majority say isnât always right. idk just shrug and be proud of ur thoughts or crack ship. if itâs like unpopular opinion on the showâs writing, then keep in mind, and maybe the show isnât for you and thatâs ok. *itâs all what the writers want to do. The majority doesnât know and change the story atm. This part seems to be the hardest..cos u can see majorityâs opinions all the time and everywhere. Usually negative sigh. So my tumblr dashboard ..is all mostly one fandom-fans. eh. so i see a lot. Just keep scrolling and know ..that person from that fandom, probably complain about something.Â
-most importantly, I tell myself, âdo i still like the show? Do I still wanna watch and see how it goes?â Then if yes, then so it is. Itâs all about me..if I still like the show. My time, money, care.
-tired of negative talk of anything. sigh. idk. (why do they repeat the same thing and say it 25,375 times? nothingâs changed. it doesnt help me or u. just deal w/ur crap feels now and get it over with.) (some say itâs bad writing when itâs just something they donât like. something minor. complain easily. basically..itâs just that itâs the writersâs show or they forget itâs a season-long arc.) i guess go elsewhere . fanart.