#winter3lit3

Okay, so here’s the deal: I want to schedule a trip to see my boyfriend @winter3lit3 this year. As many of you know, we are in a long distance relationship. I have not seen him in person since December of 2016 and I miss him dearly. He has come to the US to see me, now I feel it’s only fair that I go and see him in Mexico. I’ve successfully requested off 4 days in October so that I may plan to travel. It’s not long but it’s what I could get.

My big issue is the money, I work 5/6 days a week and I am trying to save up to pay for my student loans and rent, unfortunately that means I do not have a lot to spend on leisure or luxury, my parents are unable to help me because they are fixing the plumbing in their house and cannot spare anything.

It would really mean so so much to me if I could get a few donations to help pay for my trip, any amount is good even if it is only $1; it will all go towards airfare and food. I’ll try to save as much as I can, but any help would be greatly appreciated.

Hello! Well, to be perfectly honest with you, I didn’t know I was demisexual until about over a year ago, I didn’t realize it was a real thing! But I found that is what suited me best, it very closely resembles who I am and who I find sexually attractive.

As for my boyfriend (@winter3lit3), we met here on Tumblr. I posted a few pictures of myself on here and he messaged me and told me I was very pretty. I don’t get many comments like that so it was very nice to here, he came across as super respectful and shy. But honestly, we hit it off super well from the moment he messaged me. We talked for a little bit everyday and I think it only took us a week and a half for us to be “official”. I know that isn’t a long time, but I felt our bond was so intense. He’s also my first boyfriend, I was so nervous to be with someone when we started and even a while after that, but he was super patient and reassuring, he still is! We just hit a year and a half together about a week ago.

We’re in a long distance relationship, we are from different countries and I’ve only met up with him once in December of 2016, I miss him greatly but hopefully I will get to see him over the summer! But to answer your question, for me, being apart like we are makes it somewhat easier for me to have a boyfriend. Of course we text each other all of the time, and we try to Skype at least once a week, I think the separation builds our bond so that we can be even happier when we are finally together. I really do love him, he is such a sweetheart.

Lastly, I don’t think there is any real way to correctly “date”. I think you, or anyone, should find someone you are happy around and enjoy the company of, as they do too with you, and find someone who loves and respects you and cares for you. There’s no set rules to dating or being in a relationship, you should find what works for you best and see if it helps. I’m super weird but my bf loves me anyway, I believe you’ll find someone who loves you too just the way you are.