#wherestheravioli

You are so damn brave love. Here for you and support you no matter what.

Thank you so much. ❤ ❤

love-of-my-hetalia replied to your post  “Dear Readers,  I’m about to get real with you. Today, March 16th,...”

Wow, you're very brave! Even if it might seem like it's not very hard to admit something like this to people who don't really know you personally, it's actually a huge step ( at least I think it is ). I think that In terms of sexuality, self-acceptance is something you should always strive for. Don't worry, we support you no matter what! You haven't changed after all. Hope you're having a nice day/night��.

I think you’re right. I mean, it’s been about a year or two since I came to realization and I came out to a few people before, but it just didn’t feel the same. The first group of ladies I came out to, I was super close with them at the time but then we slowly lost contact. Same situation with one of my best friends. At the time he was the closest person in my life and I shared literally everything with him but we recently got into a fight and things have been shaky between us. But in both situations, I came out to people and then that was it? I mean, I didn’t expect things to change monumentally, but it didn’t feel like I came out either. If that makes sense...

As some of you may know, I am currently taking creative writing classes and in one of my courses, we had a small conversation about cultural appropriation in the literary field and I began questioning my own position as a writer and if I have the right to write about characters who are so different from myself. During that conversation, I unintentionally came out and at first I didn’t think much of it because I was too focused on my position as a writer. It was during the end of class that a fellow writer came up to me and thanked me for sharing that part of myself and how it was so brave of me and at first I was so bewildered because I didn’t even realize that’s what I had done. That just got me thinking that I can come out in real life and I don’t have to be scared. I can actually live my life as I am.

Of course that doesn’t mean I have to go around brandishing my sexuality in everyone’s faces. It just means that I can be myself in safe spaces. I just need to find these safe pockets and allow myself to breathe and take it all in.

scarletwolf124 replied to your post “Dear Readers,  I’m about to get real with you. Today, March 16th,...”

It's so wonderful to know you!!!

Thank you so much! ^_^ ❤

wherestheravioli replied to your post “Dear Readers,  I’m about to get real with you. Today, March 16th,...”

Aw bby!!! So proud of u for coming out. I hope ur met with only love and support ����

Thank you so much! ❤

And touchwood on your words because I have received nothing but love thus far. ❤

P.S. I love your username. :P

chyeahlex16 replied to your post “Dear Readers,  I’m about to get real with you. Today, March 16th,...”

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