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Things repeats a lot and surprises us. Those worst and unwanted experiences are repeated whether we like it or not.Why? I don’t now. No one can really answer that even though we try to search it in the web. Maybe because that is life really works. It is somewhat cool, stupid, despicably complicated and amazing. All these things that life tries to give us makes our world upside down. It is in us to figure it out and deal with it to know the answers to the questions we have.

The nature we grew up, the norms we used to and everything that we encounter gives us  a hint to what color can we put on in our lives. Stress, heartaches, pleasure, joy, misery, contentment, excitement -- these are somewhat normal to us, humans.

 Without problems, obstacles, and tragedy life won’t be complete. These are just challenges. Think about this-- what is life without a challenge? A movie without an antagonist? A food chain without prey and predator? Huh, it would be very dull as in totally nothing. It is pointless and not interesting. Life gives us many reasons to frown yet gives us more reasons to smile. Remember when you  once woke up one morning and you feel like you woke up at the wrong side of the bed then here comes your mom yelling because you woke up late? Or the time when you’re hurrying because it is already seven o’ clock in the morning and your class starts at seven thirty, and here you are searching for your missing pair of socks? Life really sucks, right? That makes you go crazy and annoyed and begun to hate the world and curse it. But the moment you get out your house, finally arrived in your school and saw your apple of your eye, things will now change. At first you do frowning then later on, you find yourself smiling. How ironic, isn’t it?

Another is, our own heartbreaks. It may be figuratively or literally. *sigh* The thing called love,  undeniably love is everywhere. Love comes naturally. Love is a part of our life. Love makes us happy and love may be the reason why we cry. So, I have a question-- Why do we keep on loving  when in the end we just get hurt and broken? I sometimes wonder, we know that we’ll going to be hurt at some point but we even continue to love and being drown with this feeling. We still pursue to search for the right one and sometimes ends with the wrong one. We don’t even get tired of this. Is this love really means? I think, I guess it is. Despite all the pain that love caused to us, the heart aches we feel and scars that we get we still love and fall then love and fall and continue to love and fall.

What about this, when there are times that we feel stuck to a certain situation then we tend to freak out. As in totally freak out and thinks that we’re like thrown in the dumps. All we’re going to do to is to complain and blame others. Why do we like that? Why do we need to blame others when at the first place who do you think was capable of putting ourselves in that fucking situation, isn’t it us? See, we blame others for our own mistake. Then again, that’s what life is.

Crazy and unpredictable this life may seem but I bet we all like it. No matter how bad our day is, we just cry and often times laugh at it. We just need to accept the fact that we can’t change it. All we need to do is to choose what suites us, it may be this or that, happy or sad or good or bad.