vent ?? typed it out and went. yeah this is getting offtopic I'll just put it in a post
itss like. truly as a guy who is in a qpr. people can be very close and be friends. no further label. its fine. its chill. they don't need some further qualification.
and assuming every single close relationship can't "Just" be friendship, has to be more, something else, makes it obvious you havn't gotten rid of the relationship heirarchy you've just replaced romance with queerplatonic relationships. or don't think friendship can Truly be that important to people. like buzz off for real.
typed it in tags and just decided to leave it in the post too. mentione friendship over romance because I see it a lot on like.
aro positivity posts-- guys you need to stop with the "I dont' trust people who value romance over friendship/ you need to be nicer to your friends" you are Not making your community a safe space for aplat people
messiest ugliest post award goes to puppy yay
