#weekendwander

Today I went out with my husband to his workplace. But instead of following him around, I decided to wander off to a nearby marketplace on my own. I found a cozy little spot and treated myself to a warm cup of tea and a local dessert. The place had such a rich cultural charm — perfect for people-watching and enjoying a quiet moment.

As I sat there, sipping my tea and indulging in the sweet treat, I observed the world around me. Families strolled by, friends laughed together, and children ran around playfully. It reminded me so much of home — my own family and friends back in my hometown. I realized just how much I missed them.

It was such a refreshing change of scenery — so different from my daily view of walls and doorways, walking from room to room inside the house.

Then, a small but unforgettable thing happened.

I thought of calling my father-in-law to invite him for a cup of tea. Just as I was about to dial his number, I looked up and there he was — walking right past me! I couldn’t hold back my excitement. I called out his name with a big smile, and it felt like the little child in me suddenly came alive again. 🤣

I adore my father-in-law. He’s one of the few people who made me feel welcome in this new chapter of life. His warmth and kindness are something I truly cherish.

And yet, behind that smile — life has been teaching me something harder to digest.

No matter how much we try to fit into someone else’s world, some people will always be too caught up in their own. It’s not that we’re not capable of living on our own — we are. But sometimes, we just long for someone to truly be there. For us. Beside us.

When that doesn't happen, when the connection feels one-sided, it hurts. But we learn to accept it — not because it's okay, but because sometimes that's the only way to keep going.

Some choices bring loneliness even in the presence of people. Some distances can’t be measured in miles — but in hearts drifting apart.

And so I sip my tea, watch the world move around me, and tell myself: just enjoy this moment, even if it aches a little. This is life — messy, bittersweet, and constantly teaching us how to breathe through it all.