#warborn.admin

for now , i want to wish you all a very happy holidays , and am excited to get back to walochnia in the new year !

i have spoken with them and have come to the decision for them to leave the group . 

i would like to acknowledge that their wording will have affected the person who came forward on anon and i want to apologise to that person and to anyone who might have been triggered . i would like you all to know that you are always welcome to come to me with issues that you have . my own response yesterday was less than perfect and i’m sorry for that. i am sorry that you were dismissed by our words and, once again, if given the opportunity, i would like to make amends and do better by the group.

i want to apologise again. i was rightfully called out not only for writing something harmful to another person triggered by my actions, but i was also a hypocrite, defensive and i let my own excitement to write about my muse’s past get in the way of the safety of the members of warborn when another person has rightfully pointed out that i could have made references to her past through present day threads. i am sorry.

i also want to apologise that my last apology came off the way it did. i am a pretty level headed person and i wanted that to come across in my apology, however it was dismissive and insincere. in trying desperately to explain my though process and the reason for writing the reply in the first place, i see that i was justifying my actions when there really is no justification.

again, i am sorry. i recognise that i have been a hypocrite, that is 100% correct. i am sorry that the person who came forward on anon was met with my defensiveness and made to feel that it wasn’t an important matter. it was, and you are valid.

in the future, i will do better, as i want this group to be a place that people can write safely, an escape from the real world which shouldn’t be tainted by my own actions. to the anon who came forward, i am so sorry. to my current members, i know i apologised in the discord but i want to say it again : i am sorry for writing something harmful towards you all. 

i desperately want to apologise personally to the anon, but i understand why you don’t want to come forward, i wouldn’t either after my reaction yesterday. all i can say is i am truly, sincerely sorry, and i will do better in the future.