Question...
So, my last ex, the one before my current boyfriend, did something very rude and frankly embarrassing to me. I already checked with my boyfriend and he said if that’s what I needed then he supports it and he’ll be here for me. But...am I wrong for wanting closure from an ex?
Like I came to terms that whenever someone brought his name that hate and anger I had towards him was bitterness I thought I didn’t have. I knew the only way for me to get rid of that and move on was for to address it head on and get the closure that I really needed. It was effecting the relationship I’m in now and I really like this dude so I reached out to my ex because I needed to close that chapter.
When I reached out he played the victim card, and when I told him why we didn’t work out he basically kept throwing the shit that I did wrong in my face. Even after I told him “I know I was a dick to you for like 1 month but that’s 1 out of 11 months where I swallowed everything and walked on eggshells for you so I wouldn’t hurt your feelings.” But he kept doing it. So I said the rest of what I had to say and didn’t even open his messages before deleting our message thread. I feel a lot better than I did about the situation than I used but was I wrong for just...cutting it off like that?
