               what form of love do you embody ?        naoki  &.  kinu
naoki.
          love as tenderness:       [ love as gentleness after a lifetime of cruelty ]   when ocean vuong said   " sometimes being offered tenderness feels like the very proof that you've been ruined "  and when pablo neruda said   " like a jar you housed the infinite tenderness and the infinite oblivion shattered you like a jar "  and when anais mitchell wrote  " all i've ever known is how to hold my own, and now i wanna hold you, too ”  Â
kinu.
           love as being known:       [ love is knowing all of someone and loving them anyway ]   when tim kreider said   " if we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known "  and when joe wright said   " The idea that these two people know each other, knew each other when they first saw each other. That they recognized each other from their future "   and when micah nemerever said    " it was a relief and a horror to be known so perfectly "
         tagged by:     @realmjumps  &   @garoette  (kisses u both)          tagging:    idk who hasnt done this yet.... so do it as a treat! <3
