Man idk about y'all but I'm honestly sick of people that claim that they're "trans allies" or whatever, and yet they continue to be blatantly cissexist in literally EVERY way (e.g. making jokes and such that imply that only women have vaginas). And then if anyone calls them out they're oftentimes coddled because "they didn't know". And? Regardless of intent they're still hurting trans/gnc people. And besides, it's usually a case of "they know what they're doing is transphobic, but it's inconvenient to them to change their behavior and views" anyways.