#vminask

Hey guys, I am back! *waves to an empty room* *laughs loudly at the thought oh how absolutely hilarious it seems in my head*

Anywayyyy...I logged back in after what seems like an eternity and guess what! I had my first 'ask' waiting in my inbox! I couldn't ignore it, after all, all the firsts in life are really precious. hah.

Hi @handelove2 and thank you for liking this tiny space of mine. Before I attempt to reply to your ask, I wish to clarify that I do NOT claim to be an expert in Vminology. Deciphering Vmin's relationship is like deciphering the meaning of life itself, lol.

I love vmin or rather I started to fall in love with them because I found out, pretty organically about their genuine and one of a kind bond. It's really hard for me to explain what I think of their real dynamic. I mean, it's pretty clear that they're bffs and soulmates. I would call anyone who refutes this, delusional because it's not me or any random fan who created these titles for them. It's vmin themselves. They have addressed each other so innumerable times.

Now, to be absolutely honest and as a vminnie who prides herself for always supporting and celebrating VMin, no matter what tag their relationship has, I want to admit I believe there was some truth to the Jennie and Tae relationship back in the day. I also believe that they broke up and are not currently dating. And while we are at it, let's also accept that Jimin himself was in a (maybe very brief) romantic relationship as was clarified a few months back. I don't shy away from these topics, but I just prefer not to publicize them or harp about them on here because 1) This is primarily a blog created to fawn over Vmin and their bond and 2) I am not that active here anyway so whenever I post it's almost always about something I strongly feel or something that would be constantly in my head and have an absolute need to lay it out.

I don't believe that there was something between VMin in the past (romantic relationship)which didn't work out. Look at Vmin now, today in BTS' 2.0 era. Would anyone be the way they are with each other if they broke off a romantic relationship? No, absolutely not! They are still just the same. They've been literally stuck to each other post MS. Be it through official content or snapshots from their private time, VMin are almost always together. Tae is still the most amazing/handsome/talented guy ever to walk the earth if you see from Jimin's perspective, lmao! He never misses a chance to praise Tae to the skies. You can't just go back to being friends like nothing ever happened if you ever were in a romantic relationship with your BFF. These are complicated emotions and not a switch that can be turned on or off as you please.

Disclaimer: What I am now going to say is based purely on my opinion of their behavior towards each other over the past several years, their body language, their actions and reactions towards each other versus their behavior with the other members: IMO ( and I say so because to me this seems like the only logical explanation to their dynamic) these two have lingering romantic feelings for each other, despite all the other relationships they may have had in the past or present. These feelings, they have never addressed directly with each other. But they know! They both know how the other one feels. It is in fact a soft undercurrent of romance that colors all of their interactions and they let themselves flow with it. These two have some hiccups in owning up to their feelings for each other, I am not sure what is holding them back but I am sure they're not oblivious. I honestly believe and I say it with a tad bit of a concern that if they choose to never do anything about it, it is going to be extremely testing for their future life partners trying to become the no.1 of their lives. I can never imagine anyone climbing a spot higher than Taehyung in Jimin's life. And even if they do, they'll be constantly competing with his soulmate for 'the most important person in my life' title. Can you imagine a song as romantic as 4'0 clock written for someone who is not Tae's life partner but merely a bff? Exhausting! Who would even want to be in a situation like that?

Again, this is all from my perspective and purely my opinion based on what little I know of Vmin through what they choose to share with their fans. I do not wish anything bad upon their future relationships and sincerely whatever they ultimately choose, all I wish is for happiness and abundance in their personal lives.