#venus-pluto

💦 Venus-Pluto aspects (especially conjunction, square, or opposition) are the ones who fuck like it’s a ritual. You might walk away shaky, reborn, or ruined — and they’ll lick the power off their lips like it was honey.

Venus-Pluto isn’t a fairy tale. It’s not sweet, soft love. It’s the forbidden fruit you bite into, knowing full well it will cost you everything. This is the love that wrecks you. The love that owns you. It’s sweat and tears on satin sheets, claw marks down your back, and whispered promises you know they’ll never keep—but you stay anyway. Because with Venus-Pluto, there is no "leaving."

This isn’t just passion—it’s possession. They don’t just want your heart; they want your mind, your body, your f*cking soul. They’ll pull you in with a magnetism so intense it feels almost supernatural, and once they’ve got you, they’ll dig their claws in so deep you forget where you end and they begin. And you’ll let them. Because Venus-Pluto love makes you feel alive in a way nothing else can.

The Sex: Heaven and Hell in the Same Bed 🔥💀

Sex with Venus-Pluto isn’t just physical. It’s spiritual warfare. You don’t just f*ck—they consume you. Every kiss feels like a command. Every touch feels like a trap. You’ll give them parts of you that no one’s ever seen before, and they’ll devour them like a wolf starving in the dark.

But here’s the thing: they ruin you so beautifully you’ll go back for more. The sex is addictive, primal, and desperate. It’s love bites that bruise for days, hands gripping your throat, and confessions whispered into sweat-soaked pillows. You’ll leave the bed aching, but you’ll feel closer to God than you ever have before.

And yet… every climax feels like a goodbye. Because with Venus-Pluto, love always comes with loss. They take you to heaven and hell in the same night, and when they leave, they don’t just break your heart—they f*cking obliterate it.

The Obsession: A Hunger That Never Ends 🩸

You don’t walk away from Venus-Pluto. You survive it. Maybe.

When you’re under this spell, you don’t just think about them—you worship them. They live in your veins. In your goddamn bones. You’ll feel their energy in every corner of your life. You’ll smell their cologne in empty rooms. Hear their laugh in every song. Check their socials like it’s a religion. It’s not love—it’s submission.

And it’s not one-sided. They’re just as obsessed with you, though they’ll never admit it. Pluto doesn’t just want to love you—they want to own you. Control you. They’ll push your buttons just to see how far they can take you, and when you snap, they’ll smirk because they knew you’d break. They’re not just your lover—they’re your shadow.

The Pain: Venus-Pluto Always Ends in Fire

This is the kind of love that leaves you in ruins. No one walks away unscathed. When Venus meets Pluto, they burn everything to the ground, and all that’s left is ash and the scars they carved into you. But here’s the catch—you’ll be grateful for the pain.

Venus-Pluto exposes your fears, your insecurities, your darkest f*cking secrets. They’ll force you to look in the mirror and see the parts of yourself you’ve been running from. And then they’ll leave, taking a piece of you with them. But in that emptiness, you’ll find something raw and real—a version of yourself that you never would’ve met without them.

Because as destructive as Venus-Pluto is, it’s also transformative. They tear you apart, but in the process, they rebuild you. And that’s why, even after the chaos, you’ll miss them. You’ll crave them. Because no one will ever make you feel like that again.

Are You Brave Enough for Venus-Pluto?

This isn’t the love you want. It’s the love you need. It’s dirty, painful, and holy all at once. You’ll lose yourself, find yourself, and lose yourself again. And you’ll thank them for it.

Venus-Pluto doesn’t just love you—it destroys you. And that’s why you’ll never forget them.

I hope you’re having a truly amazing day! It would mean the world to me, Hon, if you could share your insight on this. How would you interpret a Venus-Pluto opposition? Specifically, how do you feel it affects one's love life and the type of people they attract?

Thank you so much, angel!😊🌷

Hello love, you are so sweet and nice! 💗 I hope your day is going very well too. I’d love to share my takes on this aspect…

Venus-Pluto opposition (romance oriented)

One of the words we associate with Pluto's energy is intensity. It might sound repetitive, but Pluto’s intensity doesn't arise from nothing. It is the answer to a deep fear of surrendering vulnerability and exposure to people who only know how to repay with betrayal. Before addressing the specific points you've asked about, I think it's best to go back to the root: the perception of love and how this aspect influences a person's experience in romance.

Relationships can seem like a very appealing concept, but often remain just in ideas (especially if Venus is in Gemini, a very intellectual sign). Attraction and caution coexist when thinking of romance. It feels like something forbidden to desire. Perhaps something we can't allow ourselves to ask for or want. It requires a high level of intimacy and closeness that they don’t feel comfortable giving to just anyone. This self-protection could stem from tumultuous, complicated experiences that have lingered for years. This reveals past romantic relationships that have left a lasting mark on them or, consciously or unconsciously, have instilled in them a sense of wariness and a reluctance to trust others easily.

They observe before deciding to open up emotionally. They take emotional vulnerability in romantic relationships seriously, so they are the kind of people who prefer to spend time single rather than settle for something that alleviates feelings of loneliness. 

In a world where casual relationships are increasingly common, it's worth noting that, in most cases, these individuals don't fit well into this dynamic. Even if they ever try, they'll feel something is missing (a void, if you will). They need depth in their romantic relationships, to feel that the other person desires more than just their body or a quick fling, that they are aligned in terms of their inner richness.

Their romantic life revolves more around realism than fantasy romance. They don't seek promises or pursue unattainable ideals of love. They seek to avoid pain and betrayal. They are aware that love is not simple, and they don't aim for easy relationships, as these often reflect superficiality in their eyes. 

These natives want a relationship where both always choose each other, despite the difficulties. Someone who doesn't run from their dark sides (both their own and those of the natives); someone who has done the work to integrate them healthily.

Those born under this aspect may gravitate towards relationships that will transform and change them significantly, in every sense. They may meet people who help them change for the better, empower themselves, or gain more self-confidence. It's worth mentioning that, being a challenging aspect, this can also manifest in romantic experiences that trigger personal growth through breakups or distancing themselves from people they once loved. This could be due to distance, personality clashes, or the native recognizing that they don't deserve certain situations.

They may attract relationships after very difficult times in their lives (deaths, abrupt breakups, routines, or the area where Pluto is located in their charts). Sometimes, they achieve a bond gradually and uniquely with these people.

They manage to attract and connect almost immediately with those who possess a great amount of emotional strength as a result of profound losses, difficult pasts, or complicated relationships with love itself. Reserved personalities, emotionally reserved individuals, or those who struggle with control and vulnerability may be especially drawn to them.

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Venus square Pluto for the obvious (can’t miss it) extreme canon events (like the previous lady meeting her very first significant other because she went viral on TikTok talking about loneliness).

Venus trine Pluto for the not so obvious canon events, the ones you contemplate in hindsight (think friends-to-lovers or lovers-to-enemies).

Venus sextile Pluto for the canon events that people kinda have to go out of their way to create or see come to pass (for good or bad - think the 300 couples who decided to get married together at the same time/same place during that April 2024 Solar Eclipse (with Venus in Aries exactly sextile Pluto in Aquarius) in Arkansas. A collective canon event!)

Venus quincunx/inconjunct Pluto for the canon events built up out of what looks like minor/nonsensical/awkward inconveniences over time (think Janet Jackson and Jermaine Dupri, and him saying that he eventually cheated because he discovered that other women wanted to get close to him because of his relationship to Janet).

Venus conjunct Pluto for the canon events that are brought directly to you by another person because Venusian endeavors and Plutonian things move as one (think about the drama Offset brought to Cardi B or the drama surrounding Jay-Z cheating on Beyoncé).

could you make a post about Venus in 8th house? You’ve mentioned you have this placement and I do too! Thank you very much for your time. 🩷

🖤Venus in the 8th house🖤

TW: mentions of death and s*x

The most common thing I have seen is that this placement (along with scorpio Venus and Venus-Pluto aspects) is s*xualised and glamorised a lot. While it is true, that this placement gives an alluring and interesting aura, it’s not just that. Venus 8th house people have to offer so much more!

A lot of my friends and family members share this placement and we all share one thing: the ability to love so deeply that it hurts. This ability can also turn toxic or even turn into obsession if this placement is underdeveloped.

A lot of 8th housers also stay with people for longer than they should. Most of the times they have outgrown some situations or people, but they refuse to let go because of the feelings they feel. I’ve also been trough that many times. In hope that the spark will come back or that the people involved would change.

A common thing I’ve seen is that it is really hard to let go of people they love. I’ve seen this in friends AND family members that they just can’t let go of certain people where love was involved. For me, it’s still that one guy who I haven’t talked to for 5 months now. In the end, he hurt me. But he showed me what it’s like to be loved. I am still not over him and I know it will take some work to let go of him. With him, I experienced what I envisioned as love between two beings.

Venus in 8th house people are (like other 8th house placements) able to read people like a book. The gut feeling about others is never wrong. Intuition is high.

Could be more into trying extreme and intense things in bed like bdsm or playing with knives. 🔪💀⛓️

Very much into occultism and practising it. All my 8th house friends, for example, are in coven or practices witchcraft. Very into herbs and Hollis tub healing methods.

Which leads to the point that people with this placement are natural healers (if developed).

Natural understanding for psychology. Like really!!! Not just theoretical, but also being able to apply it in real life!

Constantly going through death and rebirth moments in life. A lot of ego deaths will happen.

On the other hand, this placement can bring a lot of hate and resentment from women (no matter if the individual is male or female). A lot of jealousy from other woman which makes it hard to find out who will stab you in the back when you’re not around. This can also lead to trust issues in friendships!

Feeling emotions so intense that it may be difficult to word them. Something that helped me was to find a creative way to let them out. Writing, painting or creating music are wonderful activities.

Red and darker colours look wonderful on these individuals (yes, this can vary depending on the rest of the chart and genetics)

Underdeveloped Venus in 8th house can make someone prone to be a pick me or a real meanie.

Either these individuals had some point of being bullied in teen years or them bullying others.

Constant feelings of so much depth. Whenever I’m around other 8th housers I feel so understood. It’s like a warm hug. We just know what you’re feeling.

I said it before, but the ability to heal… just by being there. Just the presence of these individuals is so intoxicating and loving!

Tend to have very dark humour and make jokes about inappropriate things.

Knack for taboo topics. No fear in discussing them.

Love to keep things private or even a secret. Like being involved in affairs just for the sake of it being a secret thing. I feel like some may enjoy something like that just for the thrill of it.

A lot of secret admirers!!

Can have issues with s*xuality and some may not be s*xually active until their late teen years or early adulthood. From what I’ve seen in friends, read online or even experiences myself, there can be also some unconscious trauma relating to one’s s*xuality.

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💛🌛 If your Moon is in your partner’s 3rd house, it means they understand you and can make sense of what you say or don't say… 

💛🌛 Same element Moon in synastry is always a successful indicator of a supportive and comfortable relationship. (If you know how to work it lmao) 

💛🌛 Aries Venuses aren't that interested in romantic relationships..from what I’ve seen lol

💛🌛 If you have an Aries moon, you probably viewed your mother as someone who embraced your independence yet was selfish in many ways. 

💛🌛 Aries moons have a lot of emotional strength: the archetype of the ‘heroic redeemer’ rings true. 

💛🌛Mercury-Chiron people do not believe they can communicate effectively. However, you will find your healing through means of communication (e.g. writing, speech therapist) 

💛🌛 Saturn in 4th house natives feel a chronic lack of affection from others. There are also significant karmic ties with your parents. 

💛🌛 Saturn in 10th house suggests that these people need to answer to their inner authority and what they believe is right for them. 

💛🌛 If you have a South Node in Aries/1st House, you need to release the belief that you know best. Instead, take this strong self-belief and use it to help the needs of others. 

💛🌛When there is a Sun-Pluto aspect in a synastry chart, there will be an issue of power. 

💛🌛 If your natal Venus is in aspect (especially hard aspects) to Pluto, love may feel insatiable and you find yourself yearning more more in relationships. 

Hello dear!

Here’s my thoughts on Venus - Pluto aspects in synastry:

Generally Pluto brings extremity to whatever planet it’s in aspect to since this is the planet of rebirth and regeneration.

When in contact with Venus, the planet of love, romance, and beauty, it amplifies whatever feelings each person feels toward each other.

Pluto person wants extremely deep intimacy, something that transcends physical boundaries. Pluto wants deepness and spiritual/psychological transformation. This can be quite demanding for the Venus person.

Venus-Pluto aspects in synastry can feel like a deep, intense, and transformative kind of love. A consuming love. Primal.

Intense pull toward one another. The Pluto person is attracted to how the Venus person expresses their love and the Venus person loves the intensity of the Pluto person. The Venus person is intrigued by the Pluto person.

If this is a romantic relationship, their love for each other could feel painful at times. Unrequited love is a possibility.

Deep romantic, sexual, and soul connection. You both are heavily invested in each other.

The Venus person gives their love freely and without restriction while Pluto brings restriction and control.

The Pluto person may try to control the Venus person.

The Venus person may feel like they’re “under the spell” of the Pluto person.

The Venus person feels cherished and likes feeling desired by the Pluto person.

Very strong sexual and romantic attraction.

With the conjunction especially, there may be issues with possessiveness, obsessiveness, and addiction. Venus person could be passive aggressive.

With harsh aspects (in this case including the conjunction), there’s the possibility of a love-hate relationship. Extreme emotions. Extreme attraction. Extreme reactions.

Constantly evolving relationship. Attraction may go through many phases. In long-term relationships with positive aspects, their love can feel like it’s gone through many tribulations. Both may like the challenges they face together.

Periods of frustration may be followed by insight → you grow together.

Karmic connection indicator.

Kind of love you remember forever. It changes you deeply.

I've had a Venus-Pluto aspect in a romantic relationship. Even though it was a trine, many of these things were true. It was a very transformative kind of love.

Remember to look at the whole synastry chart! However, since this is a conjunction to a personal planet, it will likely have some relevant themes in your relationship.

I hope you enjoyed this! Thanks for suggesting this, it was pretty interesting. Take care!