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Not rude at all. The appeal is not really the danger for most, it is that someone could love you dangerously.

A lot of people think of obsession as unhealthy, it can be without real feelings behind it. When most think of the stalker archetype they think of parasocial stalkers who go after celebrities. I think Yanderes are very different. The illusion of obsession can be broken easily if the feelings behind it aren't real. Look up the story about the actor who played Edward in Twilight & what he did to stop his stalker.

The appeal is someone who loves every part of you, even the darkest parts. Someone who would kill for you, break any boundary & law, someone who loves you so much they can barely live without you. I want that from someone because I can give that to someone.

I suppose if you really want to do it there are "softer" yandere types you can manifest. That just means someone who cares a lot & won't actually hurt you, but maybe with some jealousy & stalking mixed in there. Not every yandere is intense like that. If that's not your thing, then just manifest a soulmate.

Hi, interesting ask, thank you. I think there are some things that I pretend to care about more than I do. I just like to be a hater, really I do not care what people do on this app, I just find some of it mildly annoying.

Its disgusting

I have. I like his ideas although the whole women belong in the kitchen stuff is a funny dated example of his bias.

I'd argue that women were forced to be to instinctual, reduced to only a motherly role. That's not a good thing for anyone.

That's still tsukiyama right?

Sorry for the late response. I don't use this as often as I used to.

My advice would be to advance in life. I spent a long time focusing on my loneliness, the desire for a partner. But I never actually allowed myself to advance to the point where I felt worthy. Feeling worthy isn't necessary of course, but that's often how human ego works.

Using my example, my life just became busier. I had put myself out there, failed a lot. It wasn't easy; I had breakdowns because I thought I found the one. But the moment I sort of started to let go of it to focus on my life, that was the moment he came to me.