(1/2)Okay so Iâm aromantic but also call myself arovague and I was just thinking about how my âvaguenessâ influence my willingness(??) to be in relationships more than me being aromantic if that makes sense. So is there a word where oneâs feelings about being in relationships (romantic, alterous, qp, platonic, etc.) feels influenced or linked to oneâs (in part or wholly) neurodivergence? If not I was thinking about calling it vagueamorous? (or vagueships, vagueian??)
(2/2)if you have a better name to call it Iâm all for it!! Thank u for the input!!đ
i really like the idea of this! so the definition would be:
vaguian/vagueamorous: someone whose feelings about being a in relationship (of any type) are influenced by or linked to their own neurodivergence
and as for the terms, i feel like vaguian might be preferred as it sounds like it could be used as both an adjective and a noun, but vaguamorous is also good! and a relationship involving one or more vaguian folks would be called a vagueship!














