you know who you are (irls don't read unless you are the person this is aimed at) (targeted at the lying homewrecker who ruined my Christmas)
If you're reading this, fuck you. You manipulate the narrative of all situations just so you can get your way. You couldn't fuck my partner because we had set boundaries (That we both accepted!) and because you couldn't have her you got jealous and twisted the narrative to make me look like a horrible person. I am not a horrible person, YOU ARE.
People have told me they saw how jealous you looked at the party whenever I would kiss her. You say I was trying to intrude? By coming into my own room and checking on my own partner because she was anxious??? Yeah, sounds like I'm being sooooo horrible -_-
You say I "rapejacketed" you. I never did anything like that. I told my partner I had a bad gut feeling about you and that every time I've ignored that, I've been hurt in many different ways. I listed some previous examples, but I also explicitly stated I did not think you would do that. I choose my words about people very carefully, don't manipulate those to push bullshit.
In every scenario you said in your post, the story is either flat out wrong, or heavily put in different ways. You have things I said separately to conversations as things I said as responses to other things.
I'm not the first you've done this too, either. Need I remind you that you did this to a guy my friend's partner was seeing, too.
I hope you know I blame you entirely for how my Christmas period went.
Having boundaries in polyamory isn't abusive, it's literally the norm. Every poly person I know except for you has some level of boundaries in place. I am not an asshole for setting these. Just because polyamory looks a certain way to you doesn't mean every other way is wrong, it doesn't make it monogamy, and it doesn't make me (or anyone with boundaries) a bad person.
I hope you know I am hellbent on ruining your reputation to everyone I know. So is my friends partner.
Genuinely, the level of entitlement, manipulation and just general asshole-ness you display is astounding. I hold insane amounts of contempt for you. How are you pushing 30 and still acting like a jealous bitchy teenager and genuinely thinking you're in the right?
I'm gonna make more of an effort to go to raves and gigs with all of my friends just so you don't get to enjoy them. I tell everyone I possibly can about the shit you do and tell them to stay away from you because you will just shit all over anything they like and you don't and turn it into 'I don't like this thing therefore it is hateful/misogynistic' and if you do like it, you'll just steal it from them and turn it into your thing instead.
