#usagineko

Man, I was really looking forward to the last several chapters being illustrated cuz you got a great style going on there. Ah well though, life goes on.

46: Do you replay things that have happened in your head?All the time. I hate it sometimes. I will worry about things from years ago that really get me down and try to think how I could have made the situation better. Or situations I handled poorly I will replay them over and over until I am a mess. It is a horrible habit and I wish I could turn it off sometimes. I usually force myself to do something else if I have the energy to get my mind off it, like walk my dogs, or work out and this helps. Most of the time.

75:What is your favorite quote and why?

“Not all that yields is weak.” - Jaqueline Carey. This quote means a lot in the books she writes however it means a lot to me as a person. It tells me I do not always have to win arguments. I can let things go. Dwelling on bad thoughts forever will kill you. There is a time and a place to make a stand however there are times you should wait as it is not your place. It isn’t a bad thing to avoid a fight if there is no point other then fighting. I have a WHOLE lot of quotes I like but right now this one really speaks to me. 

113: Something you have lied about.

I do my best not to lie to my friends. I find it a bad habit. I used to lie about stupid stuff especially to my folks, homework in particular was the big one for me. Yet the older I get the more I realize it just causes problems so I avoid lying as much as I can. 

154: What’s something sweet you would like someone to do for you?

Honestly just make sure I know you like me. I am pretty insecure a lot of the time and I would rather not be a bother on people. So I avoid being a burden and harassing them. I like people to reach out to me sometimes so I don’t feel like I am always the one having to try to make contact. I love it when people talk to me. It makes me feel worthwhile. 

186:Share a song that takes you to a certain memory of your past.

Senior year of high school I was one of the most trustworthy drivers of my friends so everyone asked me to drive everywhere. Well I lived less then five minutes from school so I would pile my friends into the car and we would go to hang at my house while we figured out what we would do in our off hour. We would blast music with the windows down when the weather was good. One day we drove past this group of construction workers on the way to my house blasting Tarzan and Jane from Aqua and all of the construction workers started dancing like to the point they dropped everything they were doing and were rocking out. So on the way back we blasted barbie girl and they danced even harder. To this day I can not hear aqua without thinking about that moment. 

200:You’re an Action Movie Hero. What’s your weapon of choice and the line you scream when defeating your arch enemy?

Dopey, Naughty, Oops

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usagineko asked you:

Dopey, Money, Teacher

Dopey first since it was first on both: I have this horrible habit of falling down, and up stairs. The last time I did it I tripped up the stairs, slipped getting up and went all the way back down. Now I am HIGHLY durable for a girl my size and was fine, but all these people rushed to my aid and I do badly when confronted with that many strangers. So I was left stammering, sitting in the middle of a staircase, just trying to explain myself. The only thing I managed was "I fell up the stairs, sorry." And kinda scrambled away.

Naughty: Wow well as I am living on my own I don't think about this much. Really my parents are really accepting. As my father was a major hippy it is hard for him to really get mad about things. I think they are disapproving of drinking too heavily, but as I am over 21 so long as I keep myself under control they don't care. Hard drugs for sure... ummmm... I can't think of a third one? Probably extreme spending and ruining my life? o-o

Oops: I would like to change my mindset towards myself. I had an ex who really screwed me up mentally. Most of the time I am pretty good, but some days his voice still haunts me and makes me feel worthless. It is usually when I am already feeling inadequate. So I want to love myself more. 

Money: The idea of that much money scares me. I would probably by a nice house, pay back my parents for college, and then put the rest into savings. That much money corrupts people, so I would be hesitant to use it in fear that I might become one of those people it changes.

4) I am listening to... nothing, actually! Enjoying the silence. 

10) Yes, there is someone I want to be with right now. 

9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?

Sex and getting dinner for free. Lmao okay no really I think that all parts of a relationship are important. You need to make sure you make each other happy in emotional and physical ways! 

22: Do you think people should date their friends?

How else do you get to know somebody and think they will be good for you? Seriously I don't think I could start dating someone if I didn't think they were my friend first. 

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?

I'm pretty experienced with the lady folk so I think so! Even though I'm one to seek advice from friends pretty readily too. 

58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship?