#ur ex

Here’s somewhat of an update on recent events in my life:

I learned I’m 🧩 Autistic. (Yh I fucking know!)

I started a creative TikTok account, @its.jasminnicole, which I’ve wanted to do for years but discouraged from posting by my ex.

I got married on 2.22.22 and my wife cheated on me on 11.29.24.

And ever since that day, I have spent my time holding onto the trauma of that marriage by simply allowing my ex’s things to fester in my home. If I wanted to be serious about planting new flowers in my life, I had to remove the rest of her from it first. ✨🌱

Letchworth Village - Thiells, NY

- First Aid Kit/Basic first aid knowledge (It’s better if you have a certificate, too.) - Steel toed/lined boots (to avoid being injured when stepping on loose nails, screws, glass etc..) - Flashlights - Extra camera batteries - Reflective vests (if going at night or early evening) - Face masks of some assortment (dust and mold are no fun to inhale.) - Water bottles (you never know how long you’ll be in a location for) - Tripod - Extra layers of clothes (places can get fuckin’ COLD.) - ALWAYS HAVE SOMEONE WITH YOU. (It’s dangerous to go alone, take this!) - Rope (As well as a book on helpful knots in case someone falls or you need to pull something out or open) - COMMON SENSE. (Take only pictures, leave only footprints)