Sometimes unlearning cis-normativity is sitting in your room thinking “yeah sure she can have nice tits, but also they can have nice tits! And he can have a nice tits! Tits ain’t a she-only thing brain.”
Cuz for some reason something I’m having a lot of trouble unlearning is separating primary and secondary sex organs from gender. Like, I can know someone’s pronouns 100% but the second I start joking about, say, them having nice tits, the wrong pronouns tend to slip in there.
It’s a process, I’m still learning.












