lol this might be very specific but this is Tumblr so I’m hoping at least someone else can relate to it but anyone else in that weird place with their gender (I can end this here tbh) where you’re comfortable enough with your agab for people to call you their bf/gf or say “I’m one of the boys/girls” but also that’s pretty much it but you also present a lot like your agab so whenever anyone asks for your pronouns you’re like “I use any pronouns, ty!” in hopes they use literally any other pronouns apart from your agab ones but you’re too scared to be like “please use these one instead” because you fear you’re not “valid enough” to use those pronouns or you want to present more in the opposite style but you still feel like you wouldn’t fit in but also if literally anyone else told you that this is exactly what they’re going through you’d be like “OMFG NO YOURE SO VALID AND YOU DONT NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF TO ANYONE YOURE SO PERFECT AND ILL USE THOSE PRONOUNS TO REFER TO YOU” but since it’s you going through it, you need to prove yourself to everyone in the world before you can feel validated and accept or is that just a me thing lol?