#unfeed

So, one of things that is hard for as a tranny is to see people who treat my girls bad get the support and love we never get, especially when it seems zero accountability has taken place. There’s been a thing where someone has been pushing back against patriarchy and misogyny at their place of work and it has been framed as this “fight against patriarchy” with the smashing of the patriarchy in mind, where I am conflicted is person has said transmisogynistic things and when confronted has used her friendships with trans women as a way to excuse and deflect. Also what’s hard is there is not just the issue of misogyny but racism at play and don’t want to seem like I’m asking people to not hold those things as valuable because they are. But I feel like I need to know she acknowledges her previous actions of transmisognyn. Too often amab trannies are asked to do work for someone that has hurt us without acknowledgement of our grief we are asked to take for the team and advance the work of the greater whole. We are conditioned to silence and we conditioned to quiet suffering. We’ll get ours they say but later they say when it comes back around. The funny thing is that passes and everything gets “forgotten”. Meanwhile we’re left to deal with the scars.