A Glimpse into the Life of a Student Veteran
The end of the school year is bittersweet. We celebrate with those receiving their degrees and certificates, and yet mourn the loss of a relationship that was created during their time here at UNC. As I reflect on the military students that are graduating this month, I realize how quickly time passes. That can be said for one of the military students, and a friend, who is graduating in a few days. This is his story put together by Mike Peters for our alumni magazine, Northern Vision. I hope you find it as inspiring as I did. Hereās to you, Nom, and all of those walking across the stage this month. Congrats. You deserved it.
Ā His voice is quiet. Soft, as he talks about it. Heās a former U.S. Marine, a gunner with a 50-caliber machine gun perched atop a Humvee in Iraq. A dangerous, frightening job. A world away from that experience, Nom graduated this spring from UNC with a 3.41 GPA in Criminal Justice. Someday, he wants to be a federal agent for his country.
Nom (a shortened version of his first name) was born in Laos, where his parents still carried the memories of a long, devastating war. When he was 5 years old, he and his family moved to America to start a new life. He grew up on Fresno, Calif., graduated from high school there, and enlisted in the Marines. A year later, at age 19, Nom found himself atop the Humvee patrolling the streets of Ramadi, Iraq.
Today, six years after joining the Marines and fighting in Iraq, Nom reflects on his service, recalling the anguish in losing a best friend, roommate and āother buddiesā who didnāt return. He hesitates to go into detail about how those friends died, or how he almost lost his life.
āA unit in Ramadi was ambushed, and we went to reinforce them. ā¦there were snipers on rooftops shooting at us. ⦠rockets, grenades. ⦠we wanted to get the unit out safely. ⦠We didnāt get all of them.ā
Coming home unharmed carried a burden. āI have both my arms and both my legs, and Iām also one of those Marines who came home alive,ā Nom says. āSometimes, I regret that Iām all right, when there were so many others who lost so much.ā
Understandably, heās guarded about sharing his military experience on campusāāāwith the exception of UNCās Veterans Services Office where he can talk over a cup of coffee with fellow veterans enrolled at UNC whoāve become his good friends.
āI donāt talk openly about being a Marine in Iraq because I donāt know how people will react. But my professors here were tremendous. Once they learned of my status, they were extremely helpful.ā
Nom wants to complete a masterās degree in Criminal Justice at UNC, but right now, the finances are difficult. His G.I. Bill runs out with graduation, and heāll have to find a way to get the money to live on. āMostly, I already eat Ramen noodles more than anything else,ā he jokes.
But with the background and experience Nom already has, thereās no doubt that someday, heāll be a federal agent in the country that he loves so much.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā -Mike Peters, Northern Vision May 2014