17: Are there any ships you can't stand and why?
Prefacing: no hate to people who enjoy these. I know lots of people aren't going to agree with this but it's my opinion and I speak my mind. You do you, I do me. We can still be friends if you like these ships.
I personally cannot stand Radioapple. They do not have chemistry and I hate how lots of fans insist that it's going to be endgame for the show. I do not mind fans creating fanworks and shipping things, but when it crosses over to insisting that it's canon and trying to convince others into thinking that it's canon, then it bothers me. Especially knowing how Viv tends to bend to cater to the outspoken fans (re: 'retconning' Alastor's aroace identity so fans can "have their fun" / changing Valentino into more of a bimbo because people online complained โ there is an interview clip where the writers state this). It annoys me like crazy.
Unsurprisingly, the other one I dislike also involves Alastor: mutually felt Radiostatic. I love the dynamic when it is a one-sided thing on Vox's end as in canon, or even some kind of faithfully developed QPR (queer platonic relationship) where Alastor somehow manages to come around and click with Vox again, but I do not like it when it's both of them in love, and that is because it is usually used to degrade and sexualize and mischaracterize Alastor.
I don't know if I would have different opinions on these ships if people were different about Alastor. I probably would.
It mostly boils down to I hate how the wider fandom treats Alastor, the one asexual character, like some kind of sex object. I know some asexuals have sex. I just get the vibe that people use that as an excuse to overwrite Alastor's asexuality, rather than to actually advocate for asexuals that want to have sex-- and I basically never see support in this fandom for asexuals that don't want to have sex.
This doesn't stop at Alastor. It's not as simple as "he's fictional, who cares" because when the majority of a fandom that is supposed to be welcoming to different identities seems vehemently against the idea of their fave being sex-repulsed or aroace, it sends a message to the sex-repulsed aroace folks around them.













