So this was my conversation/argument with my straight/female/cis friend. Only going to include the parts I remember. Her =regular me = caps lock "you can't fucking judge Jason mraz and call him creepy you don't know anything about him!" "IM SAYING THAT IT WAS RUDE, INAPPROPRIATE, AND CREEPY THAT HE WORE A THONG ON A DISNEY CRUISE FULL OF KIDS." "yeah but you don't know anything about him like you can judge him for his music and his looks and stuff but not for wearing something that makes him feel comfortable." "YEAH BUT HE WAS WEARING IT IN FRONT OF CHILDREN AND IM NOT TRYING TO BODY SHAME HIM BUT JUST BECAUSE HE'S COMFORTABLE IN IT ISN'T AN EXCUSE BECAUSE HE MIGHT HAVE BEEN MAKING OTHER PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE." "god Atticus your such a fucking feminist I fucking hate Feminists." "DO YOU BELIEVE IN EQUAL RIGHTS FOR EVERYONE?" "Yeah but-" "THEN YOUR A FEMINIST. THAT IS THE DEFINITION OF FEMINISM." "oh really?! Then why is it called FEMinism?!?" "PROBABLY BECAUSE A) THE TERM WAS COINED IN A TIME WHERE WOMAN HAD ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHTS WHATSOEVER, AND IM NOT ACCOUNTING THE FACT THAT THEY STILL BASICALLY DON'T, AND B) THE TERM HAS BROADENED TO INCLUDE ALL COMMONLY OPPRESSED PEOPLES." "yeah well times have changed omg Atticus that was so long ago women have just as many rights as men do wow" "ACTUALLY NO THEY DON'T, AND IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT RIGHTS. IT'S ABOUT EQUALITY. THAT FACT THAT WOMEN DON'T GET PAID AS MUCH AS MEN, AND ARE THE LAST HIRED FIRST FIRED, AND ARE COMMONLY OPPRESSED EVERY SINGLE DAY IS WHY IT STILL IS NECCECARY AND ALWAYS WILL BE." "oh my god Atticus none of those things are fucking true times have changed wow you are the type of feminist I fucking hate, you always say you hate straight white guys and that's so hypocritical. I can't wait for your tumblr status about this." I kinda just stopped and left the Room because I was feeling sick and couldn't even try anymore. Obviously I wasn't all mister nice guy and I cussed her out a few times too, but that wasn't the argument itself. This just made me so angry. She also totally slut shamed me and openly admitted to it, and made comparisons with rape to trivial things like a hymen breaking, and that was her argument for "virginity is real" while i was telling her that it was a social construct made to shame and make woman feel bad about themselves. I bet she thinks reverse racism exists, too. :( Ugh white girls :(