#tw comship

First of all, don't consider this a break. Don't think that the reason Lunar was gone so long was because luar were on a break, that's not what this was. The main factor in our hiatus was the fact we were and are depressed, and did not have the energy to come online. This was not a conscious decision made on Lunar's part.

With that said, there were other contributions that kept us away from Tumblr.

For one, syscourse has slowly started entering the spaces we would be in. We ourselves have differing opinions, but generally consider ourself anti-endo. Lunar is explicitly anti-endo, and I, CJ, am more or less neutral with a preference of anti-endo.

Shipcourse had also played a role in our disappearance. When we logged on yesterday, just to browse, we were greeted by several posts on it immediately. Lunar, and myself and majority of the system, do not like nor condone com-ship. With that said, it is extremely aggravating to continuously be exposed to both sides of the argument, period. Shipcourse is not just about com-ship verus anti, however. But general discourse on ships such as, "Killermare", which I saw yesterday. Regardless of what side of the argument you are on, thosr expressing their opinions in extreme or aggressive ways has also been a factor, though only we are to blame for allowing ourself to be exposed to it so often. That, is on us.

Several people on this app has blantly ignored Lunar's boundaries. They do not want to say or hear "I love you" from anyone, minus luar family or boyfriend. (Inka, Italic, Myst, Zero, Rick, so on.) I should not have to speak on luar behalf, but lua are co-fronting by the time I've gotten to this paragraph, so I will. These boundaries have been stated several times, but never implemented in the pinned post, I will resolve this when I get to it.

Same for many other boundaries, several people have become overly friendly with them, direct messaging them when they have repeatedly request that people first seek their permission. These boundary violations will no longer be tolerated. If me, or another headmate must come closer to front to establish this, then we can and will.

Also, despite it being clear, I am rarely able to observe others respecting luar preferred pronouns. (Lua/Luan/Luar.)

I will make this clear as day: Lunar does not owe you an in depth explanation on why lua has been gone so long.

New boundaries you are expected to respect if you would like to continue interaction with this account: Do not say "I love you." To Lunar, unless you are Zero, Myst, Rick, Inka, or Italic. Do not call luan a friend unless lua has called you one. Do not direct message luan unless you've asked first, though then you may be free to continue to. Do not call luan "Luna." It is and always has been Lunar or Luner. Pro-Endo blogs are encouraged to block or soft-block this account. Do not vent to luan without asking first, though, Zero, Myst, and Rick are excluded from this rule as well. Respect luar neopronouns, Lua/Luan/Luar.

I will block freely.

-CJ.