#transparencyheals

I’m starting to believe more and more people like this, simply need proper affection given to them.

Someone didn’t pay them honest attention when they were younger | wasn’t given the right definition of love when raised or similar scenarios, I believe. People who are so defensive or can be overly offensive really just needs someone to hold them; you’ll be amazed who may just breakdown in your presence if you are REALLY willing to be their outlet or access point for help.

Some of us, really just need to be heard, and aggression and/or violence is their only way of getting what they’ve been robbed of.

Everyone has something to say, but WHY should we hear you? Here’s mine:

I wonder if you're just as quick to post a "God is so good" status, when He tells you to give up the very thing you told Him NOT to take away.. 🤔

Don't act like that's not you.. 😒

We'll have a whole list of things that we don't mind giving up, because we've been hurt too long by it and/or we're sick of it:

(like pain / being heart broken / depression),

but all the while, still hold on to a couple things that He wants the MOST and we'll find illegitimate excuses for why they aren't as bad as we know they are to us and for us..

NOPE! ❌

It's those VERY things that you try to hide from Him, is what He wants you to be just as willing to give up. It's that lustful attraction that keeps you broken mentally and psychologically.

It's that addiction that you are being in denial of, like you don't think it won't kill you.

It's that pride that'll leave you weary and can ultimately have you faint and defenseless..

So you've messed up...

(Who hasn't)

So you may not have followed through like you said..

(Forgive yourself)

So you've found out you're not Superman/Superwoman..

(About time)

So you've had to make a decision that wasn't easy..

(It's life)

What I'm saying is, is you and I are just alike. We both carry blood in our veins and our deepest of secrets and thoughts are covered in flesh.

You even may have failed, but I've come as a friendly reminder to assure you that:

IT IS OKAY!

As long as you're alive, you still have opportunities to make it right, from this moment forward. But only YOU can do that. Stop feeling sorry all the time, as you've noticed it doesn't change anything.

Start this year with weights lifted and release yourself from past decisions that resulted in results that were self afflicted.

YOU CAN MAKE IT! We both can, so I'm down to fight with you..