#top10ways

#1. Every relationship is different, but most couples have fights.We must figure out a way to make up and move on.

#2. Look beneath the argument. There's a saying: "You're never fighting for the reason you think.

#3. Communicate what's most true for you in one sentence. Learn how to practice nonviolent communication.

#4. If you can find a way to own up to your part in the argument,w/o trying to blame your partner for it,it may open up a whole new dialogue

#5. Be humble. Sometimes if you can apologize for something you did (even if you didn't "start" it).

#6. Let go of being right. There's an old saying: "Would you rather be right, or be happy?"

#7. Appreciate your partner.

#8. Set boundaries.

#9. Learn from the argument. If you keep repeating the same arguments, it's because you keep these issues going w/p realizing it.

#1. Build respect. When you respect yourself as a person, you give others good reason to believe that you will respect them as people.

#2. Be trustworthy in the little things. People needs to be able to trust you in little things b4 he is going to trust you w/ the big things

#3. Let your actions match your words. When your partner can see that what you do and say line up, the trust is easy to come by.

#4. Always be open and honest about what you are doing, and when you are doing it. 

#5. Be calm. Ever hear someone describe their partner as their rock? Being calm gets you there

#6. Be calm. Ever hear someone describe their partner as their rock? Being calm gets you there.

#7. Talk to each other about everything, not just about the important stuff.

#8. Keep the other person's confidence. What a person tells you in a relationship needs to stay in that relationship.

#9. Apologize when you make a mistake. Be willing to say "I'm sorry" when you make a bad choice that hurts the other person.