#tmblrworld

Hai #tumblrworld , long time no post, right? I just found it that our feeling can guess whether we are happy or not in some situations/conditions. Our feeling can give us a sign whether some people can become our people and make us happy around them OR make us inferior or we're not important to them and we're often left aside or because they think we're outsider/just follower/tag along kinda friend.

Somehow, when your heart told you so, first thing you do is denying. You said that it's just your negativity thought, you said that it's just your bad inkling went untrue BUT when you face those not so good actions/words/behaviours you'll know those feelings give you a signal.

It gives you answers whether should you think them as friends you'll depend to? Even when they all are kind BUT when they leave you aside, you know you aren't important.

Choose people who think you are important to them. Choose people who think that your choices and opinions are also matters (it doesn't have to be always accepted though). Choose people who want to hear you and want to be heard by you. Choose people who is not leaving when you're lonely or need a courage/hug. Choose people that do want trying everything together with you and asking your existencd when you're not around them. Choose people who miss you when you're not around. Choose people who want to fight together with you in better ways. Choose people when they want to be better people, they remind of you and ask you to come along to be better self. Lastly, choose people who has greater love and afraidness to their God than to human. So, their loves to you is in appropiate ways and will bring you closer to your God. Their love to you in dunya is for jannah purposes 🤍