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Mesmerizing Kerala is one of the best Halal-friendly destinations. Explore the pristine backwaters of Kerala, bask in the vibrancy of its beaches, and immerse yourself in its lush green environment.

The stark beauty of Ladakh has earned it the nickname "Moon Land"

Ladakh is a land of endless wonders waiting to be discovered. Its rugged and stark landscape is unlike any other in the World, with towering mountains, deep valleys, and shimmering blue lakes. The stark beauty of Ladakh has earned it the nickname "Moon Land" and it's easy to see why

Belki bir şarkının her sesinde

Belki bir sahil meyhanesinde

Belki de içtiğim sigaranın dumanısın

Bir yıldız gökte kayıp giderken

Islak bir yolda yalnız yürürken Bambaşka bir şeyi düşünürken aklımdasın

Falling in love for the first time -especially when you're 26- throws you so completely off balance that for a brief moment, you think there might actually be truth behind the concept of its awe-inspired magic making whatever. Then, of course reality hits and life happens and issues arise and insecurities hold the floor and commitment, the one unbeatable monster hiding behind all the morning texts and the sweet blinding honeymoon phase gestures, blows its fire allover your "too good to be true" illusions. I don't understand or believe the "forever" statement, but I do appreciate a good "right now" and a stable "near future". That's a much simpler view of relationships. Or so I thought...

No matter what I said or did or acted like. I was the girl. And what does the girl want? She wants dedication. She wants 24/7 care. She wants babies. She wants husbands. Yes. Multiple ones. She wants money.

What about space? What about careers? Friends? Emotional security? Alone time maybe? Dare I say, self exploration trips with herself? Some kind of arrangement other than marriage? Is this so profoundly unbelievable about "the girl"?

Let's explore the question for which the answer is so far fetched that it doesn't cross the mind of any random guy, which is, what if she's just "a girl" with her own set of needs, dreams, desires, and problems? What if she's, I don't know, different? What if she's not the exact same person as your ex, your mother, the actress playing the loyal wife, or your favorite porn star? What if she's just her, without all your expectations, perceptions, precautions, pretentious care? Does a man, in this day and age, have the mind, that is capable, of understanding that?

Thank you for reading what I have to write -and please forgive any typos-,