(1)Hey hey! I'm here to wish you a wonderful day. Also I wanted to say a few things and first of them is - I'm really sorry. As a bisexual I'm against people saying "pan people are not valid because we have bisexuality". That's not true. And I'll tell you why I think so. I'm a firm believer that we should be allowed to express ourselves. Two very important traits that define us are our gender and our sexuality. If we are not allowed to express them, it will affect us mentally at some point in
(2) life. I know that from personal experience. I was raised in a country were being gay is a huge no. You are not gay. You can’t be gay. Or any other sexuality that it’s not heterosexual. I struggled so badly with who I was and what I tried to present to the world. I had people tell me “Well you could have dated boys. You would have been able to fit in.” Maybe that’s true. However after being sexually abused at the age of 14 at the hands of a family member I didn’t feel safe around most people.
(3) In fact he did what he did because I had found myself a girlfriend and I was happy. It took me years to put that behind me, and I still can’t stay in a room with a guy on my own. I’m turning 22 this month. It’s been 2 years since I moved to the UK. I even went to Pride this year. I went through depression, social anxiety and suicide attempt because people told me - you are wrong. What you believe is wrong. You are straight and you will always be straight.
(4) So I say - fuck them. If you identify as pan, then you are pan. And the bisexual community has no right to argue about it. And if someone thinks that I’m wrong, they can come and talk to me about it. I fought tooth and nail to be free to love whoever I want. And all of you deserve to be given the same freedom. That’s all
thank you so, so much for the support. and I’m sorry you went through so much. you’re a wonderful person, and deserve so much love and happiness.