I hate it when I say 'you shouldn't dump someone for being ace' and ppl immediately jump in with 'weeeeeeeell u need to be compatible tho!!!!' Like yes u pineapple, I know that, I'm not saying don't break up if the relationship isn't right for u. I am saying that if u were okay with the relationship before your partner told you they were ace and now you aren't, you need to seriously consider the fact that u might be aphobic.