Why I Only Post Selfies (And Why That Bothers Some of You)
I take selfies. That’s my choice. And yet, every day, I get dudes asking, “Why don’t you post full-body shots?” The answer is simple: I’m not thirsty for attention like some girls who think their only value is their body. That’s not me. Y’all can settle for just my selfies.
I don’t live for validation. If my husband wants to see all of me, that’s for him and only him. Yes, I’ve taken full-body pictures, but you won’t catch me flashing my body for likes. Unlike most of what y’all simp over, I was raised with morals.
And let’s talk about these so-called "red-pill" men. They spend their time complaining about how women are “selling themselves” for attention, yet they’re the first ones in my DMs crying because I don’t. The irony is wild. You claim to hate these “304s” (y’all’s favorite word), but those are exactly the types you chase. Then you turn around and try to gaslight women with self-respect into thinking they need to do the same. Nah, I’m good.
You just exposed yourself. Acting all high and mighty while whining like the same dudes you claim to hate. Complaining that I’m not thirst-trapping for views like the girls on X or streaming sites? That’s an easy way to get attention, but I don’t need it. I actually respect myself.
And let’s be real—some of y’all don’t even want grown women. You want girls who started posting like that at 15 or 17 because you’re afraid of real women with morals and standards. You can’t handle a woman who carries herself with dignity because it reminds you that you have none.
So don’t come crying to me when you’re the one chasing the hoes. And definitely don’t try to turn real women into what you claim to hate. I was raised with values, in a stable, loving family. Unlike y’all, I don’t contradict myself every five minutes.
Some of you love to say, “If she did this, she’d get more views.” Newsflash: I’m not here for views. I’m here because I have something to say. I don’t need to use my body to be relevant. The values my parents instilled in me are worth more than any amount of online clout.
Just because I don’t wear a hijab doesn’t mean I’m not a God-fearing woman. I respected my father in life, and I respect him now that he’s passed. I would never disrespect his legacy by throwing away the principles he raised me with.
And before y’all ask-no, my body is not for public consumption. My full nude? That’s for my husband’s eyes only. He’ll be the first and only one to experience that. So all you get is a cute selfie and a modestly dressed Shay. Deal with it.
If that’s a problem, go chase the same 304s you claim to despise. Clearly, that’s what you really want. Just don’t come crying to me about what I don’t do. The good cookies? They’re reserved for my future husband.
And let me add one more thing...
My future husband can walk with his head held high, knowing he has a wife with zero shameful history. No OnlyFans, no nudes, no half-naked pictures floating around online. Meanwhile, millionaires and billionaires out here are constantly getting clowned for being with women who have a messy past. That’s a huge L for any man with a wife or girlfriend who’s got skeletons in her closet.
But my man? He’s winning. He found a woman with real self-respect, no past to haunt him, and nothing to be ashamed of. He can flex on me, and guess what? It checks out. Nobody can say a damn thing.
xo
shay
